They say trends come and go... and eventually, they come back again. This fall, we're seeing that notion play out firsthand — literally, on our fingernails. When it comes to nail-art trends for the upcoming season, retro is all the rage, with the best manicures of the '90s — like French tips and bright-blue butterfly prints — having a major moment.
According to Rita de Alencar Pinto, Founder of NYC's Vanity Projects salon, the throwback nail-art trend echoes a larger cultural revival. "This '90s throwback trend that we've been seeing both in music and pop culture has sparked nail-art inspiration," Pinto explains. "All of this season's biggest nail trends are resurgent: deep-white French, rainbows, and butterflies."
Ahead, find the six breakout nail-art looks for fall 2019. Scroll through to find your new favorite look — which might just be a fresh take on your middle-school mani.
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It's been just over a year since Meghan Markle married Prince Harry in a ceremony at Windsor Castle, making her the Duchess of Sussex. Although the royal wedding is old news, the one thing that hasn't stopped being a topic of conversation from that day is Markle's bridal hair and makeup.
Her naturally flushed cheeks and nape-grazing chignon became a go-to reference for brides. In fact, one year later, you'll still find images of Markle on many bridal inspiration boards on Pinterest. Now, we're learning that Markle — like many other brides — used the platform to plan her wedding-day makeup look.
Her longtime makeup artist, Daniel Martin, reveals that the two turned to Pinterest for the big day. "We exchanged Pinterest pictures over text," Martin, who did the Duchess' makeup for her wedding, told beauty podcast Gloss Angeles. "Pinterest is an incredible tool to use as a reference."
Their Pinterest exchange worked so well that the two didn't even have a makeup trial beforehand — which can also be attributed to the fact that they both have busy schedules and live in different parts of the world. The final look was barely-there foundation that showed off her freckles, fluffy lashes, dark liner, and a neutral smoky eye with a pale pink lip.
In the podcast episode, Martin also reveals that the custom Givenchy dress played a role in their decision to go for minimal makeup. "The dress [was] so architectural that if she had any more makeup on, you wouldn’t have even looked at the dress and that’s not what that moment is about," he told hosts Kirbie Johnson and Sara Tan.
Since the May 2018 royal wedding, Markle's makeup look has served as inspiration for many, including Karlie Kloss who told Refinery29 that she looked to Markle when planning her special day. While Markle can be a good reference point, Martin urges brides to keep it to their own personal style, whether that's natural or bold. "You can’t stray too far from who you want to be and who you are," he says. "The last thing you want to do is look at pictures and be like, 'I wasn’t comfortable in looking like that.'" And that's where Pinterest comes in handy: "It’s finding those elements that you admire and you want to aspire to achieve, but at the same time, you have to have a sense of who you are in there," he says.
Now, if only we can get a glimpse into Markle's other Pinterest boards. Possibly, recipes? Or, house decor for Frogmore Cottage?
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Lena Dunham is this month's Domino cover girl, and in addition to a gorgeous piece of writing discussing her aesthetic identity and relationship to the concept of home, the Girls creator (who is currently working on another project with HBO) has gifted us a look at her never-before-seen current residence in downtown Manhattan.
Dunham, whose parents are both visual artists, recalls growing up with a mother who loved home design and moving around ("it’s a miracle that they survived the Williamsburg rental with the black lacquered kitchen and faux Warhol wallpaper," she writes of her parents). She also speaks frankly about buying a home with an ex (Jack Antonoff) and decorating the place by herself while he was away, only for him to come home and hate it. After they broke up, she writes, she panicked and bought another place in what she calls a "massive real estate mistake." "I never even moved in, and magazines wrote about it when I sold it at a loss. I was real-estate shamed," she writes.
But this sad story has a happy ending! Dunham's current West Village home, which boasts pastel colors, printed chairs, and the requisite quirky touches one might expect of the woman who created Hannah Horvath and the gang, is a sight to behold. Scroll on for five things we learned about the place, then read the rest of Dunham's essay and see more images on Domino.
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“Someone said, I’ve got 99 problems, and CBD fixes 86 of them,” recalls Bethany Gomez, managing director of Brightfield Group, a market research firm that specializes in cannabis and CBD. She’s referencing an often-Instagrammed meme, but if you talk to anyone who swears by CBD, they’ll probably say something along the lines of that quote. Jay-Z would likely turn his nose up at this lyrical adjustment of his iconic 2003 song, “99 Problems.” But, then again, even Jay-Z is involved in the CBD industry. CBD, which stands for cannabidiol, is the non-psychoactive compound found in marijuana and hemp, and it’s 2019’s go-to wellness panacea.
Technically, CBD can only definitively “fix” one problem: epilepsy. In 2018, Epidiolex, a drug containing a purified marijuana-derived form of CBD, was approved by the Food and Drug Administration for preventing seizures caused by two rare forms of pediatric epilepsy. All the other uses for CBD are up in the air as far as their effectiveness. That fact hasn’t stopped people — 22 million consumers in 2019 — from experimenting with variations of this drug to self-treat symptoms ranging from endometriosis to attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, migraines, insomnia, generalized anxiety disorder, and more.
Some promising research on humans has demonstrated CBD’s ability to reduce social anxiety, psychotic symptoms in people with schizophrenia, and cravings for heroin — but the results of these studies haven’t been conclusive, explains Jeff Chen, MD, MBA, and the executive director of the UCLA Cannabis Research Initiative. This lack of data, however, hasn’t stopped this new industry from flourishing.
Cannabis’ standing in the cultural zeitgeist shifted from a stigmatized drug to a powerful plant containing one of the most beneficial molecules of all time to those who swear by it.
To understand why CBD is everywhere right now, you have to go back and look at the Farm Bill of 2018. Every five years, our government passes a new Farm Bill or Act, which covers everything from farming, food, forestry, and rural communities. Last year, however, this Bill was particularly contentious due to President Trump’s tariff fight with China, which resulted in farm workers seeing huge declines in the profits from their products. (The Asian nation is one of the largest importers of U.S. agriculture.) While this Bill mainly covered things such as insurance protections for farmers and funding for farmers markets, it also differentiated hemp, a variety of cannabis, from the illegal drug marijuana, and reclassified it as an agricultural commodity, subsidizing some of the money farmers were losing due to tariffs.
At the same time, the Goopy world of wellness exploded into a $4.2 trillion dollar industry. Women — who historically have been disbelieved by doctors and have had their chronic pain conditions dismissed — started to seek out alternative ways to treat their ailments. Enter crystals, Whole30, celery juice, elaborate self-care routines, sleep coaches, infrared saunas, and of course, CBD. Cannabis’ standing in the cultural zeitgeist shifted from a stigmatized drug to a powerful plant containing one of the most beneficial molecules of all time to those who swear by it. But when it comes to self-experimentation in wellness, it doesn’t really matter that nobody knows how or if CBD actually works. This willingness to believe the unknown and the 2018 Farm Bill created the perfect storm for enterprising individuals to sell us anything and everything embossed with the three-letter acronym. Before the Bill, CBD was promoted exclusively through word-of-mouth advertising, and sold through independent channels. Now, it’s on track to becoming a $23 billion dollar industry by 2023.
I first heard about CBD last year from a friend who, like me, gets chronic migraines. She suggested I try a high-potency, full-spectrum CBD tincture from a company called Lazarus Naturals, which provides discounted CBD products for veterans, individuals on long-term disability, and low-income households. It helped her significantly reduce the frequency of her headaches, so I was hopeful it would work for me, too. Surprisingly, it kinda did. No, it hasn’t quelled my pain completely, but it does help reduce some of the physical discomfort and accompanying anxiety I get whenever a migraine strike. I enjoyed it so much, I started trying other CBD brands even when I didn’t have a migraine — such as Lord Jones Royal Oil Tincture and Sunday Scaries Vegan Gummies — and found that, with regular use, I’m calmer and have an easier time focusing.
April Ann, a 31-year-old from Los Angeles, started taking CBD at the end of the day to wind down after work and high-intensity workouts. As a “naturally high-energy” person who drinks a lot of caffeine, but isn’t into drinking alcohol, she liked that CBD made her feel relaxed, but not sluggish or intoxicated. “I can tell the CBD is working,” she says. “I'm not looking at email or thinking about work, but just sitting down and watching my favorite TV shows, and not worrying about the stress of the day or what I have to do tomorrow.”
Elizabeth Andreassen, a 26-year-old in New York City, started using a CBD tincture during a period of time when she was experiencing anxiety, and feeling a constant sinking feeling in her stomach. “That went away within minutes after taking the tincture drops under the tongue,” she shares. Megan Tatem, a 27-year-old also in New York, says she can tell when CBD is working because she’s “no longer moody.” There have also been reports of people ditching their prescription psychiatric and pain medications for CBD without the blessing of their physicians.
But others find that CBD doesn’t affect them at all. Jay K.*, a 34-year-old real estate broker in New York says he purchased CBD oil and capsules at a trendy coffee shop, and felt nothing, even after taking seemingly high doses. “After several attempts at feeling something and seeing how it was marketed, I realized it was snake oil,” he says. I fed a few Lord Jones CBD Gumdrops to my mom, who suffers from chronic insomnia, and not only did it not help her sleep issues, but she also felt nothing.
If someone really believes that CBD is “working” — whatever that means for them — then they’re more likely to experience the effects.
Researchers haven’t been able to pinpoint the exact physiological mechanism that makes CBD “work” so well for so many issues, explains Flávio Kapczinski, MD, PhD, professor of psychiatry at St. Joseph’s Healthcare Hamilton McMaster University. In simplest terms, it’s thought that CBD acts by modulating the endocannabinoid system, which is a complex network that’s responsible for maintaining bodily homeostasis and modulating pain and inflammation. Cannabinoids, such as CBD, can bind to specific endocannabinoid receptors and make you feel different ways. “There are a lot of expectations about the therapeutic effects of cannabinoids,” Dr. Kapczinski says. “These expectations are probably inflated right now.”
Exaggerated expectations and the placebo effect can go a long way, though. The different ways that people use CBD are all over the place, and there are no codified dosage recommendations, so all people can really rely on to show that CBD is effective are their own experiences. If someone really believes that CBD is “working” — whatever that means for them — then they’re more likely to experience the effects. And if people really believe that they’re feeling the results that they want to, then they’re more likely to trust the product and tell their friends.
There are very few side effects associated with taking CBD, even in large doses. And, in the short term, Dr. Chen from UCLA says it’s relatively safe. But there are still a lot of question marks, including how CBD affects pregnant people, whether CBD interferes with other drugs, and especially the potential long-term effects. (CBD has been shown to boost the effects, good and bad, of other drugs.) Some people argue that humans have been safely using cannabis for decades, so in theory CBD should be fine, too. But that’s not an easy comparison to make.
“CBD sold online or in stores isn’t regulated by any state or federal agency,” Dr. Chen says. “So, it really could have a very different amount of CBD in it that’s labeled, or it could contain contaminants.” (The Food & Drug Administration, which evaluates and approves all prescription drug products, hasn’t approved any other CBD products besides Epidiolex. However, the organization “recognizes the significant public interest in cannabis and cannabis-derived compounds, particularly CBD.”)
As a CBD-user, you have to be careful about the products you’re choosing to ensure that you’re getting the safest, most effective form. Dr. Chen recommends buying CBD from larger retailers that you already trust — such as Whole Foods, CVS, Walgreens, or Kroger — so you have some level of certainty that these stores have done their due diligence to make sure the products they're selling are as safe as can be and properly dosed. Or, if you have the option in your state, go to a legal cannabis dispensary to get CBD, because those products are regulated tightly. “If you want to buy outside those parameters you have to do your own research,” he says. (Obviously, letting your doctor know that you’re using CBD can be beneficial as well.)
There’s no telling what the future of CBD will look like. Hemp farmers and CBD manufacturers are still waiting for official rules and regulations around hemp growing and cultivation to be finalized and released from the USDA. There are also different rules for different strengths of CBD in different states, and while it’s technically legal to travel across state lines with hemp-derived CBD products containing less than 0.3% THC, the TSA only recently said it’s cool to travel with it.
CBD brands meanwhile are waiting eagerly to see how states harmonize with the upcoming USDA regulations, and how that change affects the way they do business, explains Dylan Summers, Director of Government Affairs for Lazarus Naturals. “The ideal scenario is that we'd like to keep the trend alive for as long as possible,” he adds. “We’re certainly in a good spot; sales are climbing.”
These sales are climbing mainly due to millennials and Gen Z, who are buying and using CBD with great fervor and reporting even greater success. In the end, in today’s hectic and manic world, it simply makes them feel better. That there’s little scientific proof to back up their own experiences is irrelevant. These demos will only get older and develop more ailments that’ll need some sort of treatment. For now, CBD seems to fit that bill.
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Think back to when you watched Bodyguard last year: heart racing, lump in your throat, a profound mistrust of every single character. It was torturous and we all loved it, which is why you’ll be thrilled to tune into the BBC’s latest crime thriller offering. Buckle up for The Capture.
An eerie, acoustic cover of “Somebody's Watching Me” is the soundtrack to the show’s trailer, which should give you a fairly big clue about where this series is going to go. But allow us to talk you through the backstory. Ex-soldier Shaun Emery (Callum Turner) has just had his conviction for a murder in Afghanistan overturned. At the trial back home in London, the court finds the video footage that had originally implicated him is actually flawed when a videography expert explains that the lag between video and audio on soldiers' helmet cameras makes the footage pretty unreliable.
With his name cleared, Shaun heads to the pub with his legal team, friends and family to celebrate. (It’s worth noting here that he’s not drinking, though. He stopped a little while ago.) Though he’s excited to have the weight of the conviction off his shoulders, Shaun’s still on edge. An old friend makes a misguided joke about what happened in Afghanistan and Shaun’s overcome by anger. He’s hurt, defensive and clearly worried about his reputation. But his priority now is to rebuild a relationship with his primary school-age daughter and forge a life for himself back on home soil.
Of course, we’ve been set up to know that it’s never going to be that simple. Cut to Shaun just getting into bed in the room he’s staying in at his granddad’s house. A storm of armed police wake them both up and take Shaun into custody under the instruction of newly promoted DI Rachel Carey (Holliday Grainger). She’s received a call alerting her to an abduction that has taken place in the time between Shaun leaving the pub and getting home. He and his car were spotted in CCTV footage and, given his very recent conviction (despite being found not guilty in the end), Rachel goes in heavy-handed to take him down. She’s desperate to prove herself in her new department, you see. Once she’s proved she can run a case such as this one, she’ll be able to progress even higher in the police force and move into a counter-terrorism unit.
“You’re under suspicion for assault and kidnapping,” Rachel tells Shaun when they eventually sit down for questioning. He’s adamant that he didn’t do it so they show him the capture – the CCTV footage they have suggesting otherwise. It shows a completely different scenario from the one we watched earlier in the episode. Shaun tells the officers that it’s not him on camera and what they’re watching didn’t actually happen. The police suggest Shaun might've been under the influence and he reminds them that he doesn't drink. Rachel wonders if PTSD from his army service might've played a role but Shaun's not been diagnosed. Can we argue with a video that seems to show what happened pretty damn clearly, though? If your answer is no, you’re about to have everything you thought you knew (and trusted) about national security and surveillance challenged and, spoiler alert, it’s not very pleasant.
All sorts are thrown into question over the following five episodes. There's fake news and the impact it has on cases like this one. If intelligence services can monitor us all the time, can they interfere with what they're recording and to what end? How can we tell and who can we trust if a seemingly watertight narrative is put in front of us? Maybe Big Brother isn't just watching, maybe he’s meddling, too.
The Capture starts on BBC One on Tuesday 3rd September at 9pm
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I have a love-hate relationship with afro hair shops. If I pass one on my travels, there’s a high probability I’ll venture in, even when I don’t need anything. Nothing pleases me more than floor-to-ceiling aisles of brightly coloured packaging, the contents of which I know will make my hair smell like a tropical fruit cocktail.
Afro hair is a multimillion pound industry, with black women estimated to spend six times more on haircare than other women – but there's a problem. While afro hair shops are an Aladdin's cave of pre-poos, butters, leave-in products and wigs, they are often staffed by so-called 'professionals' who, despite not having a single strand of afro hair knowledge, regularly serve hundreds of consumers a week.
Afro hair shops up and down the country are often owned and run by all-male teams of south Asian descent. In many instances, they offer advice and recommend products to women who are predominantly black or have curly hair, despite not having any qualifications, insight or personal experience of these hair types and their complexities. It's no wonder, then, that women feel let down.
“Before it was my job to immerse myself in the haircare world I felt so out of my depth in afro hair shops,” Akesha Reid, digital editor at Hairdresser's Journal, told R29. “As much as it's great to have so much choice, I was baffled by the differences in products that looked the same. The people that work in these shops seemed more interested in pushing their own agenda on what they needed to sell than actually knowing what's good for my hair type.” Akesha suggests this could be why peer-to-peer natural haircare blogs and YouTube reviews have become so popular in recent years. She also points out the risks of potentially unregulated products, which are often imported and stocked in afro hair shops. “In many cases, you can buy imported products that don't have any other presence in the UK, such as distributors or UK representation. This can be dangerous, especially considering the chemicals that live in products like relaxers and dyes.”
When I put this question to my Instagram followers, most were on the same page. “I never ask the staff, even when they tend to advise you on what to buy,” commented one. “I go in and pick up what I know and what I'm used to.” Another wrote: “I have to educate myself through recommendations from people I know personally, YouTube reviews, online forums, as well as researching product ingredients at length. It’s mad annoying that we can’t access the advice and information we need from in-store professionals but the service just doesn’t exist right now.”
The general customer service is often under scrutiny, too, as women have reported prejudice or discrimination. The issue of afro hair shops turns more sour when you acknowledge the array of skin 'bleaching' and lightening products on sale alongside hair items, which often contain potent ingredients at illegal concentrations, such as hydroquinone, which are either banned in the EU or have to be prescribed by a medical professional. It is remarkable to see brands that want you to invest in and embrace your natural hair texture stocked alongside skin bleaching products that destroy natural skin colour. It seems that afro hair shops, which have become synonymous with the black cosmetics industry in the UK, are failing the very same consumer they aim to serve.
Up until recently, there was no representation when shopping for afro hair products in high street beauty chains.
When it comes to hair and hair products, a flood of online hair businesses have emerged in response to bad reviews of bricks-and-mortar afro hair shops. Many of them use Instagram to draw in consumers who have had enough of being fed misinformation in store and bombarded with unnecessary (and sometimes unsafe) products and bad quality hair. Yet despite filling a gap in the market, many of these online brands just aren't cutting it for consumers, especially when it comes to purchasing hair.
Jazmin Kopotsha, R29's entertainment editor, has had many a bad experience while shopping online. “Like many of us, I've turned to online deliveries when I've not been able to (or wanted to avoid) going to a physical hair shop,” said Jazmin. “The trouble is, as well as the barrier of not being able to physically touch things like hair to check its quality (I've ordered Remy human hair and received a synthetic hot mess that rivals my 18-year-old Cindy dolls), lots of online retailers are getting a reputation for awful service. They might look sleek and glossy on Instagram, but looking through the comments you'll see lots of complaints from customers about not having received their orders, or not having emails responded to or queries answered. It's really frustrating. Demand is so high, especially since extensions have become much more mainstream.” Sadly, Jazmin mentions that consumer defeat never has much of an effect on the people selling, because there are only so many alternative retailers to turn to.
Buying safe and regulated products is slowly becoming simpler thanks to the emergence of trustworthy black British female-owned businesses, which have entered the market to cater for the specific needs of afro and curly hair. Using social media platforms to showcase products and build their communities, brand founders can empathise with their consumers and offer unprecedented access to quality ingredients, targeted solutions and a premium experience. Antidote Street is one such platform, amalgamating a beautiful e-commerce store with expert content on understanding hair textures, product reviews and personalised hair advice. Akesha, herself an afro hair expert, agrees: “Antidote Street is great for a highly curated edit of premium products.”
Speaking to R29, Antidote Street's CEO Winnie Awa, who recently made the transition to natural hair, said that she was compelled to change the status quo in the black hair industry as a result of her own frustrations with the alternatives available at the time. With a clear focus on education, Antidote Street works with professional trichologists and hair experts. “That way, we can provide digestible content on how to care for hair,” said Winnie. “Knowledge is power and we believe in arming our customers with the best so that they can make the right choice.”
Its tightly curated edit includes Dizziak, dreamed up by beauty journalist Loretta De Feo, who, like Winnie, launched her brand out of necessity. “It blew my mind that the big companies ignored the market for so long,” she told R29. “First and foremost, I am the consumer, and if I wanted healthy, effective products that looked and smelled great for my beauty routine, I knew others would too.” With Dizziak now stocked in Liberty and Selfridges, Loretta has created a brand that transcends demographics and specific hair types by focusing on hydration and proven ingredients.
However, premium products demand premium prices, and while black women reportedly spend more on hair than the national average, there have to be accessible options at all price points. Up until recently, there was no representation when shopping for afro hair products in high street beauty chains, despite the UK's large black and ethnically diverse population. Ronke Adeyemi, founder of brownbeautytalk believes this has had a negative impact on many women's self-esteem. “Every black woman I know talks about having had difficulty finding products for her hair when growing up,” she told R29. “Not only are we passionate about our readers having access to correct information but we also want them to be aware of the many purchasing options out there.” As well as Antidote Street, brownbeautytalk recommends Hair Popp, Xsandy's and Detangled Hair, to name a few retailers.
Thankfully, the wider situation has improved, too, and major retailers are finally creating shelf space for the affordable products that so many consumers rely on. After launching its 2016 Shades of Beauty campaign, which highlighted beauty products for people of colour, Superdrug's sales of afro hair products rose by 80% in 2018-2019. It has now become the UK’s number one retailer for the category.
A spokesperson for Superdrug commented: “[The campaign] signified change in the UK hair industry, and highlighted the importance of consumers with textured hair being able to access products aimed specifically at their hair types – that’s a huge step forward for inclusion.” This newfound ease of shopping for hair products is echoed by many, including Ronke: “It makes me feel great as I can pick up products when I am in my local town centre doing the weekly shop. I don't have to make a special trip to a specialist shop, which is both time-consuming and costly. It's good to have choices, which is fundamentally all we want.” Among the brands that have benefited hugely from Superdrug's new strategy are Shea Moisture and other popular afro and curly hair brands such as Creme of Nature, As I Am, Twisted Sista and Pantene Gold Series. Meanwhile, high street rival Boots now stocks brands like Camille Rose Naturals, Cantu and ORS.
The afro hair shop monopoly may not be over, but whether you are a wig wearer, hair relaxer devotee or full-blown naturalista, it is brilliant to see that the beauty industry is responding more than ever to ensure representation, accessibility to products and education. Of course, you don’t have to turn your back on your local hair shop altogether, but as Winnie said, knowledge is power, and it really does pay to do your research before you buy.
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She visibly cringed. “I’m…not looking for a relationship,” she responded.
This is a direct quote from my (at the time) soon-to-be girlfriend and now (thankfully) wife. Back then, I viewed her rejection like a hurdle I needed to run at and within weeks I was driving the six hours from Manchester to southwest Wales to meet – and hopefully charm – her parents.
Before I met her parents she warned me that they were different. We even looked at her dad’s Twitter profile together so I could get an idea what he was like. An eco-activist, he had 8,000 (now 10k) followers, which made my 3,000 look a bit pitiable. His bio included the words #Sustainable #Mindful #Impact, mine included a link to my latest celeb interview and One Direction lyrics. See, I’m a radio DJ, which is a job I love. But the pop world, with its plasticky merch and carbon travel footprint, isn’t exactly known for its eco-friendly credentials. I'm no dolphin-punching maniac but I knew it was going to be a culture clash.
As I pulled up to their Pembrokeshire house in my maroon Ford Fiesta, I guiltily hid my McDonald's Monopoly tokens in the glovebox. I was nervous but once I opened my car door, I found a slightly drizzly paradise. Overlooking the sea, their house was designed for Earth worship. It had kayaks, an allotment growing fresh veg, solar panels on the roof, a whole shed dedicated to wetsuits, a healing room for my girlfriend’s mum to practise therapy, Buddha statues, plants everywhere and a shit-ton of Jesus sandals.
As I walked into the kitchen, I was greeted with big hugs, even bigger grins and the most delicious cup of coffee. Within hours I was in a wetsuit, wading against the waves and participating in something called 'coasteering'. Coasteering is when you scramble over cliff rocks by the water’s edge or, as I like to call it, slowly drowning while pretending you’re not. After a few hours it was clear to me that they adored the sea for the energy and life that it brings. At the time, I remember I found this weird because the sea is where jellyfish and sharks come from. Now, however, I’m totally on board.
Ever since that death-defying dive into the deep end with my in-laws, I have slowly woken up to the climate crisis. Through thoughtful conversation, healthy debate and role-model behaviour from them, I have learned what sustainability really means – and it sucks. Turns out, and I’m sure this is something you’re already painfully aware of, loads of fun things are really bad for the planet. You know balloons, those magical plastic things that we send off into the sky in memory of loved ones? Well, they burst and land in the sea and kill animals, which is actually a pretty shitty thing to do in someone’s memory. It’s all fun and games blowing bubbles in your milkshake until a turtle is having a plastic straw surgically removed from its nostril on your Facebook feed. And glitter! Well, I actually always hated glitter anyway so whatever, but the other stuff still stands.
What I have found most difficult among all this rage and confusion about how we ended up here is balancing guilt with realistic expectations. I’m not the next Greta Thunberg and I don’t want to stop showering or become a Grade 5 Vegan (fans of The Simpsons will know this is not eating anything which casts a shadow). I do, however, want to try my best and so my challenge changes regularly. It used to mean buying less meat, now it means buying less dairy. I don’t shop fast fashion and I check the air miles on my produce. More than that, it’s about picking battles. I used to collect recycling from one of the places I worked, sacks of drinks cans over my shoulder like an eco-warrior Santa. Now I want to focus on conversations with friends, family, colleagues and a wider circle to encourage them to do the right thing. This should mean I don’t have to go through the bins anymore and so, to compensate, I bought the office a recycling bin so they could sort it out themselves.
Living sustainably may require material sacrifice but largely it has brought me enormous personal growth. My father-in-law said that he knew I was feisty and value-driven from the moment he met me but now I think we can both agree I’m using it for something better. I have improved my relationship with my body by believing that it deserves healthy food and that my mind is better when I immerse it in nature, rather than staring at Netflix rewatching Friends (a moment of silence for my wife, who grew up without a TV). It’s made me better at my job too because human connection drives everything I do. I’m kinder, and more creative on air because I don’t want to rely on regurgitating last night's TV gossip.
I’ve still got more work to do but honestly, I’m very grateful for the privileged upbringing I had, which ultimately brought me to where I am today. Now just feels like the right time to do some good for the planet too.
Olivia Jones is a radio and digital presenter living in Manchester with her wife and imaginary dog. She is also a columnist for DIVA magazine.
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& Other Stories' latest collaboration will go perfectly with your autumn playlist. Today, the brand announced it will be adding yet another innovative collection to its repertoire by pairing up with Swedish actress and musician, Sandra Andreis. Fusing her love of music and fashion, Andreis and the Scandi stalwart have created a 14-piece capsule collection to be released alongside five revamped interpretations of iconic songs including “The Lady Is A Champ”, a modern take on the classic 1937 show tune.
The genre-crossing artist said her inspiration for the musically charged collaboration was wanting women to be themselves unapologetically. “For me, a champ is someone who dares to be herself, who supports other women and stands up for what she loves,” she explained. “This project is not about throwing classic songs away, it’s about questioning the norm and not being afraid to claim your space. I hope to encourage women to embrace all their dimensions, be who they are and look however they want.”
& Other Stories is known for releasing collabs that regularly send us into a shopping frenzy. Last year we were treated to playful floral prints splashed across deep-V dresses and matching co-ords courtesy of its House of Hackney partnership, while back in 2016 its Wool and The Gang offering made a lasting impression, stuffed with thick knits, plush accessories and personalised knitting kits.
Our favourite pieces from the latest collection include work-appropriate statement suits, romantic dresses in a plethora of vintage-inspired prints and loafers that'll work as well in the boardroom as they will at Sunday lunch. We'll be taking our styling cues from the lookbook and updating oversized blazers with cinched waist belts, coupling tiered hem dresses with tailored trousers and pairing gothic florals with knee-length go-go-style boots. Race you to the checkout.
Shop & Other Stories and Sandra Andreis capsule collection from 5th September.
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The number of books on our reading list is multiplying by the minute and it seems we’re going to be thoroughly occupied with even more this September.
Summer alone was filled with books we couldn't put down or stop telling our friends to read. We couldn't get enough of Everything You Ever Wanted, Luiza Sauma's honest and moving examination of social media, depression and daily life thoughts that plague us all. Our poolside lounging wasn't complete without a copy of music PR legend Vivien Goldman's tales of rebellious music icons in Revenge of the She-Punks. And Jia Tolentino's Trick Mirror, a witty series of essays touching on self-deception, was exactly the enlightening read we hoped to stumble upon in 2019.
But it's now time to say goodbye to Hot Girl Summer. We're preparing to ride through this turbulent mid-season weather and embrace September's back to school vibes, and we need a reading list to match, so allow us to introduce you to our latest literary haul. Whether you're a sucker for an emotionally gripping tale of injustice, breathtakingly visceral personal essays or a 19th century classic, we've got a recommendation for you. Have a gander at the books R29 staffers are pledging to plough through in September.
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Twenty-two years after Ross first shouted, “We were on a break!” in an episode of Friends, people are still debating what, exactly, taking a breakmeans. Is “a break” just a gentler word for a total, if possibly temporary, breakup, which is how Ross took it? Or is “a break” a period of time in which you don’t see each other, but you don’t sleep with other people, which is what Rachel thought? Ross and Rachel make it clear: If you don’t define what “taking a break” actually means, that break can very quickly turn into a breakup. Not to mention the seven seasons of drama that followed.
So, Ross and Rachel are clearly an example of what not to do. But does taking a relationship break ever work? Ross and Rachel did end up getting back together, after all. But perhaps because no one can agree on what “taking a break” means, there hasn’t been a lot of research into the pros and cons of doing so. But one 2009 study of on-again, off-again relationships among college students found that on-off couples were more likely to report negative experiences, including communication problems and uncertainty, and less likely to report positive feelings, including love and understanding from partners, than other types of couples. And a 2004 study of young adults found that only one-third of couples who broke up and got back together again actually stayed together in the long term.
That said, relationship experts say that there’s a right and a wrong way to take a break — and that taking a break can even be beneficial for a relationship, depending on the situation. And if taking a break does lead to a breakup, who’s to say that that’s a bad outcome? Ending a relationship that’s not working for you is a good thing.
So if you want to take a relationship break that’s actually helpful, here’s how to do it.
Agree on what “a break” means
Learn from Ross and Rachel and define “a break.” Talk with your partner and agree on ground rules: Can you have sex with other people? Can you date other people? How often will you communicate or see each other, if at all? Will you unfollow each other on social media? Can you discuss the break with mutual friends? How about your families? This will be a hard conversation, but setting boundaries before you begin will make the actual break so much easier.
Focus on yourself
Liz Goldwyn, founder of The Sex Ed, a multimedia platform for sex, health and consciousness education, tells Refinery29 that taking a break can be an opportunity to evaluate your own needs. “I’ve found with relationships that timing can be everything. People aren’t always in the same place with their needs and desires (commitment level, ambition, etc.),” she says.
As for the break? “It is not the end of the world to come apart to focus on yourself, your needs, and your evolution while letting your partner do the same. You may find yourselves closer than before, or come to a clarity you wouldn’t have been able to if you didn’t have space to breathe — remember that what keeps a flame burning is oxygen.” Now is the time to think about your needs and what you want out of your future, maybe with the help of a therapist. And this is a good time to order your favorite take-out and binge-watch that TV show your partner hates, too.
Evaluate the relationship
Getting some distance can help give you perspective on your relationship, Lisa Brateman, LCSW, a psychotherapist and relationship specialist in New York City, previously told Refinery29. “Taking a break can promote self-awareness when you’re removed from the situation of toxicity, and what’s not going right,” she said. “A break means some part of the relationship has to change, or it won’t survive.” Getting some space might help you evaluate your relationship with new eyes: How do you feel when you’re not seeing your partner regularly?
Make a plan
Sometimes, you need to do some work individually to be able to work better as partners, Anita Chlipala, LMFT, a relationship expert in Chicago, previously told Refinery29. For some couples that break up and then get back together, “it wasn’t that they weren’t a good fit, they just needed some information and skills to make their relationship work,” she said. “There should be a purpose to the break, and there should be things both partners should work on.”
For example, maybe you decide to attend therapy separately to figure out what you need in a relationship, or learn how to effectively communicate what you want. Chlipala says that after the break, you should be able to answer one big question: “What will be different?”
Reassess the relationship
When you begin the break, agree that after a certain amount of time — say, a month — the break will end. At that point, you and your partner will reassess your relationship. Whether you decide to stay together, break up, or even to extend the break for another month because you need more time to figure things out, it will be better than being in relationship limbo.
Take action
Maybe, during the break, you realize that the relationship isn’t working for you and you decide to end it. Tell your partner, and then begin focusing on reflecting and recovering.
But maybe you decide that you want to continue the relationship. For the break to be beneficial, you need to take action. Whether that’s beginning couples therapy, working on your communication skills, or something else, you don’t want the relationship to look exactly the way it did before. Something has to change, and now’s the time to make that happen.
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When you strike gold on the first try — like Summer Fridays co-founders Marianna Hewitt and Lauren Gores Ireland did when they released the Jet Lag Mask — diversification is risky. Since the 2018 launch of the brand's hero hydrator, there have been a couple follow-up iterations: the R+R and Overtime, both exfoliating formulas. However, the brand has stuck with the signature aluminum tube that made it a flat-lay favorite.
All three masks have earned top-shelf status in the vanities of IG influencers everywhere, but still, fans begged Hewitt and Gores Ireland for something beyond aluminum. Specifically, they wanted a serum that would really sink in and work against concerns like hyperpigmentation. Now, it's here.
Today, Summer Fridays released the new CC Me Serum, the brand's entrée into more penetrative actives. CC Me comes in an airless pump — not sky-blue metal, but still cute — and the formulation highlights two hero ingredients: vitamin C for brightness and squalane for hydration.
Unlike the thick balm of the Jet Lag Mask or the gel of the R+R treatment, CC Me has a more fluid consistency. One pump in my palm was enough to cover my whole face and neck with the translucent serum. The glow it leaves behind is almost immediate, and there's a faint smell of orange slices — fresh, but not at all overpowering.
According to Hewitt and Gores Ireland, CC Me was specifically designed for anyone, with any skin type, in need of a daily serum that reduces dark spots and hyperpigmentation.”This serum was crowdsourced,” the two co-founders told R29 in an email interview. “Time after time, our community asked us to address hyperpigmentation and dark spots in a product. It was that direct feedback that inspired this launch.”
Like other vitamin C serums, this one should be applied to clean, dry skin in the morning as a base layer to your skin-care routine. “I give it a minute to sink in before applying a thin layer of Jet Lag as my daily moisturizer, then I follow up with an SPF. Supergoop! is my go-to,” Hewitt tells us.
Whether you're one of the stans behind the mass request for a Summer Fridays brightening serum or you're currently rehabbing residual summer sun damage and dryness, CC Me makes a solid addition to your fall routine. Plus, if the brand's first face mask was any indication, you'll want to pick up your own shiny white pump with a pale orange label to post all over your Instagram feed.
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Hustlers. Honey Boy. How To Build A Girl. Harriet.
They’re not just alliterative titles, or highly anticipated movies based on true stories, or films starring Shia LaBeouf as his dad. (Okay, that’s just Honey Boy.) Like many of the most interesting offerings at this year’s Toronto International Film Festival, they’re also all directed by women.
That’s true, of course. But as the TIFF 2019 roster proves, there’s still more than enough valuable and interesting work to be found — if you care enough to look for it. Half of the movies on the festival’s Gala lineup have female directors, a record number for the festival, with more still featured in the Special Presentations and Documentary categories. And while those numbers would be encouraging on their own, the breadth of storytelling reflected in these films is what makes this year especially exciting.
Movies by women don’t fit into a single genre, or theme. On this list, you’ll find animated comedies (Abominable), celebrations of real-life heroes (Harriet), LGBTQ-focused dramas (Portrait of A Lady On Fire), coming of age stories (How To Build A Girl) supernatural romances (Atlantics), explorations of identity (Hala), and family sagas (Blow The Man Down). Marielle Heller’s biopic about Fred Rogers and his friendship with journalist Tom Junod (A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood) sits right alongside Marjane Satrapi’s adaptation of a graphic novel about Nobel Prize-winner Marie Curie (Radioactive).
Some of these films are in English, others in French, Arabic, or Hindi. They follow men and women of different nationalities, religions and ethnic backgrounds. But all of them tell stories you won’t want to miss out on. Click through for some of the movies by women we can’t wait to catch at TIFF, and beyond, this year.
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We all love Netflix. It’s always there for us after a stressful day at work or a bored weekend at home. But, we can all agree settling on one specific television show to watch can be stressful. The infinite number of ultra-specific categories are enough to make your head spin. And, things get even more difficult once you add in the plethora of foreign-language shows as is becoming increasingly en vogue.
To help make the decision process easier, we picked out the absolute best Netflix Original Series ever, because you know those are never leaving the fan-favourite platform. You'll find new shows and old, comedies and dramas, and everything in between. Keep reading to learn what your next great Netflix marathon will be. Happy streaming!
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You might not be familiar with the name Harper Watters, but you've probably seen one of his viral videos. Maybe the one where the professional ballet dancer struts, pops, and does splits on the treadmill to the sounds of “Fergalicious” — all while wearing a pair of sky-high pink heels? Two years ago, that exact Instagram video became an internet sensation, garnering over 1.4 million views and tons of reposts.
Watters has gone on to post more treadmill routines, in addition to clips in which he pirouettes sans exercise equipment. The star soloist at the Houston Ballet has built an online reputation centered on self-expression and fearlessness. That's what landed him a gig as the face for MAC's Love Me Lipstick collection.
Along with five other individuals who MAC has deemed “powerfully expressive” — a list that includes Halima Aden and Roma Sawayama — Watters appears in the lipstick campaign wearing a shade of candy apple-red lipstick, called Shamelessly Vain. He also takes a stroll on a treadmill to none other than “Lovefool” by The Cardigans.
Watters admits that he came about his signature move spontaneously. It all began when he and his friends randomly put on heels after a workout in the gym. “We were like, 'Could you imagine if we put on these heels and just got on a treadmill,'” he tells Refinery29. They did exactly that, creating the first of many videos. Watters makes it seem easy to pose on a moving stage, but he admits it's a tough task. “It's a lot of prayer, good health insurance, and music that really helps to do it,” he says with a chuckle, revealing that there definitely has been some falling. “The power of editing gives me a lot of grace.”
Although dancing in heels can be tricky — you should probably leave it to the professionals — Watters finds power in wearing stilettos on and off the treadmill. “When I wear the heels, a lot of people see the shoe but there's a certain swagger, a certain attitude that you have to have when you put on heels. The same comes when you put on red lip or you use a gorgeous highlight,” he says. “I really feel like Naomi Campbell when I wear makeup. When you know that you have a stunning lip on, it's indescribable but you just carry yourself a little different. It's like a superhero cape.”
Watters first learned to put on makeup for his dance recitals and studio performances. Over time, he perfected his stage makeup skills by watching YouTube tutorials and copying the techniques of drag queens. “RuPaul's Drag Race was really inspirational for me to start accepting my feminine side and exploring my identity, other sides of who I am, and who I can be,” he says. “It really made me feel like, 'It's cool to put on a heel, makeup, or any type of outfit.”
Don't be mistaken by Watters' undeniable confidence, his journey to self-love has been a work in progress — especially with the pressures within the dance community. “I'm actually in my tenth season with the Houston Ballet, and it's my job to stare at myself in the mirror every day and perfect things,” he reflects. “I doubted myself a lot, and I thought I had to be like other successful dancers. I compared myself to them.”
Eventually, he harnessed the confidence we all see today on his Instagram feed and in the MAC campaign. “It was when I truly accepted who I was, what I had to offer, and what I had to say that my dancing became better.” Watters feeds that self-love by taking his ballet classes every day — which he finds meditative — wearing heels whenever he pleases, and making time for guilty pleasures, like the Real Housewives.
He urges everyone to find the thing that gives them power. In his words, “Whether it's makeup, heels, or doing what you really truly love, celebrate that and own it because once you do that, the sky's the limit for what you can achieve.”
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Ah, pilates. It’s not just for women from the ‘80s wearing neon spandex. It’s a versatile workout that’s good for posture, conditioning, and strengthening. It’s low impact, and ignites your muscles in a gentle way, making it pretty accessible for most bodies. Pilates tends to work the core, first and foremost, but you can target your bum and other areas, too. It can be done with or without equipment, so don’t worry if you don’t have a reformer in your living room!
We worked with Amy Jordan, the creator and CEO of WundaBar Pilates, to come up with some peak pilates moves for you to incorporate into your life for this month's 30-day challenge. Getting them done will only take about 10 minutes, so don’t worry about this taking over your life.
Jordan calls the moves “fun, challenging, core-shredding, full-body exercises – created for you to feel stronger, longer, and 100% empowered!”
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Picture this: The year is 2016; the boy band One Direction officially broke up months ago; and former member and standout singer Harry Styles has made plans to go solo, cutting his shoulder-grazing heartthrob hair in the process. Why? Well, he just ditched the group that skyrocketed him to fame, and he's going to be in a period action-drama about WWII called Dunkirk. In other words, he's moving on. Fans are, naturally, heartbroken over his sudden transformation.
Fast-forward three years, Styles is about to drop his second album (which, he says, is very sad) and just made yet another dramatic haircut decision that is sending fans into a frenzy.
The drama started on Saturday morning when a fan tweeted a selfie of her father and Styles together in Italy. “Soooo my dad just met harry in Italy…., cannot fucking believe my eyes,” she wrote. Soon enough, the photo was retweeted all over the Twitterverse, with fans noticing that Styles looked… different.
As seen in the photo, Styles' not only cut his hair shorter, but he is now brushing it forward into a look that some are comparing to Timothée Chalamet's bowl cut in The King. This is particularly unusual because Styles' hair is always slicked back. Now, he looks like a healthy mix of Stranger Things' Jonathan Byers and former 1D bandmate Louis Tomlinson.
We may not know why Styles got the haircut, when it happened, or if it's for a role, but we do know exactly how some fans feel about it: not good.
me forcing myself to like Harry’s new hair style bc I want to support him in any way possible pic.twitter.com/3JEcNCZNSp
people unstanning harry because of his style and hair 1. what 2. he looks perfect 3. yall only care about looks 4. this beautiful legend stays unbothered
Despite how you feel about the new look, a new era of Styles is officially upon us — and as far as we can tell, Styles is unbothered by the reactions. As one fan tweeted, “He really is THAT bitch.”
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Here on the Shopping team, we’ve been using eBay to source secondhand and vintage clothing since the early years of online shopping. There’s very little that can’t be had on the massive marketplace, and we’ve indulged many throwback whims with the help of eBay’s super-granular search tools — just ask our EIC Christene Barberich how she hacks the site with cleverly specific search terms. However, a lot has changed since our days of vintage-hunting infancy: eBay is now in the business of selling absolutely everything, and secondhand merchandise is only a small fraction of offerings that include Apple products, premium household appliances, and brand-new designer finds.
Despite its foray into omni-retail-dom, we still use the site anytime we have an itch for vintage sterling silver jewelry, a pair of perfectly broken-in Levi’s, or a Batsheva-style prairie dress of the OG variety. And while we’re often hot on the trail of specific search terms, it’s always helpful to have a rolodex of the eagle-eyed secondhand pickers that truly have the goods. So, in an effort to streamline your browse, we’ve rounded up those bookmark-worthy shops reliable for their on-point assortments. Click through to find the vintage purveyors that have us hitting the “save seller” button.
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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle may have dedicated their summer to environmental awareness, but they've spent most of it on the receiving end of criticism after using multiple private jets.
Air travel is responsible for more than 2% of global greenhouse gas emissions, according to the European Commission, and some felt it was hypocritical for the royal couple to advocate for change while actively participating in greenhouse gas emissions. Many celebrities came to the family's defense during the media storm, but it wasn't until Prince Harry's speech announcing the first Sussex Royal Foundation project, Travalyst, this morning that the new father addressed the criticism head-on.
“I came here by commercial,” he said in a Q&A according to a short video posted on Twitter. “I spend 99% of my life traveling the world by commercial. Occasionally there needs to be an opportunity based on a unique circumstance to ensure my family are safe, and it’s genuinely as simple as that. But as I said in my speech, for me it's about balance.”
WATCH: “I spend 99% of my life travelling the world by commercial [aircraft]” Prince Harry says at the end of the ecotourism launch when asked about his own travel behaviour. He adds he always offsets all his travel ✈️ pic.twitter.com/1xXvBiXsC4
He also said he always offsets his CO2, which is something Elton John similarly promised when defending the royals' use of his own private jet when they visited his Nice residence back in August, saying he gave a donation to Carbon Footprint™.
“After a hectic year continuing their hard work and dedication to charity, David and I wanted the young family to have a private holiday inside the safety and tranquility of our home,” he wrote on Twitter. “To maintain a high level of much-needed protection, we provided them with a private jet flight.”
Travalyst seeks to find solutions to many of the gripes the public has had with private jets, and will do its own work to offset any of the Duke and Duchess's private travel needs in the future.
“#Travalyst aims to make travel more sustainable, to help protect destinations and benefit communities long into the future, and to enable consumers to make more environmental friendly choices whilst traveling,” the @sussexroyal Instagram post explains, adding that the charity is partnering with Booking.com, Skyscanner, Trip Advisor, and more to help enact this change.
If we could avoid ever paying full-price for another purchase, you bet your ass we would — which is exactly why we created a roundup solely devoted to the best decor and furniture sales happening as we type. Welcome to The Score, it's our new home for the best marked-down goods from all of our most-browsed shopping destinations.
With a plethora of freshly-discounted finds from our favorite home stores popping up on a weekly (if not daily) basis, there's no reason to go out of budget on your next purchase. Especially since we've already done all the overwhelming site-weeding for you, pulling out the most worthy products with the sweetest sale prices. If you've been searching for a vintage rug for a fraction of the price or a vintage-style apartment-warming steal, you can rest easy...Because we've hunted those deals down for you right here. From dream furniture to unique decor pieces and more, the goods ahead come accented with red-slashed $$$ signs proving that stylish spaces can be affordably (and easily) achieved.
Anytime we hear about a special promotion or one-off deal, we’ll add it to this page — the good stuff only. So if you’re a deal-hunter like us, bookmark this post and check back often, because as all savvy shoppers know, the best sales don’t last long.
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Earlier this summer, Anna Wintour said that she “loves” flip flops. If we’re to believe her, it says a lot about style in 2019. The zeitgeist dictates that the uglier the trend is, the better. Everything from dad shoes and mom jeans to upside-down skirts is de rigueur, as long as you feature it in a well-lit Instagram photo. This summer, that short list has included flip flops.
Living in New York City makes wearing flip flops a challenge. Walking around barefoot leads to unfortunate encounters with murky puddles on the street. Ask anyone who has braved the city sidewalks in flip flops, they’ve likely ended the day with their toes covered in soot.
As a fashion editor living in NYC, I ruled out the idea of ever wearing those casual, extremely open-toe flats. So, imagine my surprise this summer to see them creep up all around me. In Soho, I spotted stylish girls pairing them with colourful A-line skirts, t-shirts, and chunky jewellery. Instagram influencers like Emili Sindlev are topping off their brunch looks with colourful plastic sandals. Jennifer Lopez is styling her Givenchy sweatsuit with glitter thong flats. Street style stars at Copenhagen Fashion Week are teaming prairie dresses with bright flip flops. And Saint Laurent even released a limited edition flip flop in collaboration with Havaianas.
Despite the proliferation of the flip flop, I was still skeptical about whether I should embrace the once-shunned sandal. For starters, I never felt that my feet were my greatest asset. I played soccer throughout high school, and I have the callouses to show for it. For that reason, I’m a year-round boots wearer, and it takes a really special sandal to encourage me to let my feet loose. On top of that, as a fashion editor, I feel pressure to pile into vertiginous heels to “look the part.” In the circles I run in for work, the dress code calls for high-fashion clothing items paired with sky-high stilettos. A casual flip-flop — and the comfort it provides — never fit into the arbitrary wardrobe standards I set for myself.
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And then I went to Hawaii for the first time, and everything changed. There, on the island of Oahu, I learned that flip-flops are literally a way of life. Everywhere you turn, you’ll find someone wearing a worn-in pair that locals lovingly call their “slippers.” They don’t limit the sandals to low-key, low-stakes affairs; they pair them with everything from a string bikini to a festive, going-out ensemble. There’s an ease and simplicity to Hawaii dressing that I found inspiring. For a few days, my anxiety over what to wear dissipated and comfort took precedence. And dare I say it: my flip flops were actually cute. My gold platform $20 Havaianas looked, in fact, quite stylish paired with my Alexa Chung maxi dress. And heading out for a coffee, I didn’t have to think too much about my outfit. I could just throw it on and go. I could focus on living.
This experience, coupled with a healthy dose of clear blue water and natural vitamin D, reminded me that summer dressing should be easy. While you won’t catch me on the subway in a pair of flip flops anytime soon because my fear of getting stepped on still persists, I’ve overcome my insecurity about my feet and will now show them as I see fit. Maybe that means wearing them with a t-shirt and shorts at the Rockaway Beach boardwalk with my friends. Or even showing up to a fancy brunch downtown in flip flops paired with my favourite Ganni dress. Either way, my pedicure is finally getting some shine.
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