House Speaker Nancy Pelosi took a shot at freshman Reps. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, Ayanna Pressley, Rashida Tlaib, and Ilhan Omar in an interview published Sunday, leading to weeklong wall-to-wall coverage of the ideological and generational fractures within the Democratic party.
"All these people have their public whatever and their Twitter world," Pelosi said of the foursome, adding, "But they didn't have any following. They're four people and that's how many votes they got."
The comments, which followed the passing of a $4.6 billion emergency border aid bill in late June, set the internet alight. Members of the “squad,” as the freshman congresswomen have called themselves, voted against the measure, arguing that it didn’t go far enough to protect migrant children in detention centers along the U.S.-Mexico border.
Following the publication of Pelosi’s remarks, Ocasio-Cortez replied on Twitter: "That public ‘whatever’ is called public sentiment. And wielding the power to shift it is how we actually achieve meaningful change in this country."
I find it strange when members act as though social media isn’t important.
They set millions of 💵 on 🔥 to run TV ads so people can see their message.
I haven’t dialed for dollars *once* this year, & have more time to do my actual job. Yet we’d rather campaign like it’s 2008.
"Squad" members weren't the only ones to protest the border bill's passing. "I am looking for a new pharmaceutical drug that builds spine," Washington Rep. Pramila Jayapal, who is the co-chair of the Progressive Caucus alongside Rep. Mark Pocan, said after the vote.
This isn't the first time the freshman representatives have sparred with Pelosi. In some cases, they've even gotten top Democrats to follow their lead by pushing for bold policy proposals and speaking publicly about their disagreements with the leadership, despite being the new kids in town — such as when many of the presidential hopefuls adopted the Green New Deal.
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It's also not the first time Pelosi has publicly dismissed the freshman congresswomen. Ever since Pressley, Ocasio-Cortez, Omar, and Tlaib came to Washington, Pelosi has made at least half a dozen remarks dismissing the group. In April, she sought to undercut support for Medicare for All — a proposal the entire foursome and many other progressives support. In February, she referred to the progressive Green New Deal proposal, championed by AOC, as "the green dream or whatever they call it."
The feud has become very public over the past week, with House members rushing to defend either Pelosi or the squad. In a closed-door meeting Wednesday, Pelosi pleaded with the Democratic caucus to stop the infighting and instead focus their anger on Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell, who regularly obstructs any legislation Democrats put forth. "Some of you are here to make a beautiful pâté, but we're making sausage most of the time," Pelosi said, a senior Democratic aide told CNN. "Mitch McConnell is the person who stood in the way of our doing more, not anybody in our caucus."
Pelosi is also seeking to defend moderate members who are likely to face tough re-election races after flipping longtime Republican-held seats or winning districts that President Donald Trump carried in the 2016 presidential election. "You got a complaint? You come and talk to me about it," Pelosi said, according to CNN. "But do not tweet about our members and expect us to think that that is just okay."
While it’s clear that the rhetorical sparring within the caucus will not end anytime soon, this fact does obscure that for all intents and purposes the Democrats have a united house. According to a ProPublica tracker, the four progressive congresswomen have only broken with Pelosi on two votes so far, including the border bill. AOC has agreed with Pelosi on 93% of votes. This suggests that Democrats in the current House, regardless of where they fall on the ideological spectrum, agree on most issues.
That’s a far cry from the majority in the previous Congress, where former House Speaker Paul Ryan had to deal with several factions within the Republican majority that were often at war. (See: The fight in the spring of 2017 to bring forward a measure repealing the Affordable Care Act that pleased everyone.) For example, House Freedom Caucus Chair Mark Meadows voted against Ryan 33% of the time in the 115th Congress.
Despite her disappointment at how Pelosi has undercut her closest allies, Ocasio-Cortez seems to understand that the speaker has a political strategy. She told The New Yorker that she doesn't have a personal relationship with Pelosi because she is, after all, just one of 235 members of the Democratic caucus. "I think leadership, their primary goal right now is making sure that everyone who won a swing seat comes back," Ocasio-Cortez said. "So I think that that’s where a lot of their time — rightfully, I think, justifiably — is invested, in those relationships."
But she has also made it clear, in an interview with The Washington Post, that the optics of Pelosi's behavior matter. Ocasio-Cortez said: "The persistent singling out...it got to a point where it was just outright disrespectful...the explicit singling out of newly elected women of color."
Defending AOC, Jayapal told Politico that she can relate to her comments about being singled out as a woman of color. "God, it totally resonates with me, absolutely," she said. "We women of color have faced this for such a long time... We are in a body of mainly old white men. You don't get to be here without having dealt with that, most people." About the freshman congresswomen's social media reach, she said, "I don’t think the Speaker is used to having a group of members who has bigger Twitter followings than her."
Pelosi said she is choosing not to address the controversy anymore. She told reporters on Thursday: "I've said what I'm going to say in the caucus."
Reporter asking about Pelosi telling Dems 'do not tweet' party grievances: [AOC] said she feels you're explicitly targeting her.. What is your response?
Pelosi: I've said what I'm going to say in the caucus..I'm not going to be discussing it any further [WATCH her full response] pic.twitter.com/AMDwLixUBF
It was just last year that Sephora rolled out Clean at Sephora, a new labeling initiative that aims to help shoppers select products that aren't formulated with a number of potentially-harmful ingredients and have less than 1% synthetic fragrance. Although the term "clean" still remains ambiguous across industries — and has received its fair share of criticism within the beauty world — Sephora is forgoing its own path by being transparent about what exactly "clean" means to the beauty powerhouse. The brand started with a focus on 13 ingredients and the list now has over 50 that cannot be included within a formulation for it to comply with the Clean at Sephora seal, which will go into affect this month.
Among these 50 ingredients — which apply to skin care, makeup, fragrance, and hair — are BHA (butylated hydroxyanisole), carbon black, mercury and mercury compounds, aluminum salts, lead and lead acetate, and more. The retailer is also requiring brands to test for contaminants like 1, 4 dioxane, an organic compound that has been labeled a health hazard, and comply with ingredient thresholds to limit exposure levels of other ingredients.
Sephora has 68 brands with products the fall under the Clean at Sephora umbrella as of now, but with a growing interest in more-natural beauty from consumers, it will surely continue to rise. Shop some of our favorite picks with the seal, ahead.
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First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Cream Cucumber Melon
What's more refreshing than cucumber-infused water when you're parched? Well, you can get the same rejuvenated feeling for dry skin with this hydrating moisturizer. It tackles dryness with ceramides and shea butter with the added bonus of a fresh scent of cucumber.
First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Cream Cucumber Melon, $32, available at Sephora
Glow Recipe Watermelon Glow Ultra-Fine Mist
Speaking of refreshing, Glow Recipe created this ultra-fine, fog-like mist that has the dreamy blend of watermelon, hyaluronic acid, and hibiscus that you can spray onto skin to refresh your makeup — or just cool down skin on a hot day. Spoiler: It feels like you're walking through a cloud.
Glow Recipe Watermelon Glow Ultra-Fine Mist, $28, available at Sephora
Cover FX Monochromatic Matte + Shimmer Blush Duo
This blush duo is talc-free and doesn't compromise on pigmented color. You can achieve a pop of color on the cheeks by using either shade, or both for a multidimensional finish.
Cover FX Monochromatic Matte + Shimmer Blush Duo, $47, available at Sephora
Flora + Bast Age Adapting CBD Serum
This oil serum is packed with organic CBD to calm redness and fight blemishes, all while leaving you with a dewy glow.
Flora + Bast Age Adapting CBD Serum, $77, available at Sephora
Think of this as a juice cleanse — bottle and all — but for your hair. The shampoo cleanses and nourishes with banana and coconut without stripping your scalp.
Briogeo Banana + Coconut Nourishing Superfood Shampoo, $28, available at Sephora
Lululemon Anti-Stink Deodorant
Fitness clothing brand Lululemon expanded into beauty this year by creating products with natural ingredients, like this aluminum-free deodorant, that actually works. The secret ingredient? The workout-tested formula uses prebiotics and zinc to fight odors.
lululemon anti-stink deodorant, $18, available at Sephora
Aether Summer Solstice Eyeshadow Palette
In addition to the formula having the Clean at Sephora seal, this palette's paper packaging is more sustainable with no pans or elastic. Inside you'll find 12 buttery shades in matte, shimmer, satin, metallic, and duo-chrome textures.
Aether Summer Solstice Eyeshadow Palette, $58, available at Sephora
Sephora Favorites Clean Fragrance Sampler
Ready to cleanup your fragrance game? This perfume sampler set comes with seven minis to try out IRL and a voucher that you can exchange for a free full-sized bottle once you make your selection.
Sephora Favorites Clean Fragrance Sampler, $65, available at Sephora
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Sweat is a summer certainty. You can swipe that deodorant twice, put your hair up into a bun, or wear as little clothing as possible — still walking outside will have you dripping in perspiration within minutes. So, on the hottest summer days, it can feel like putting on a full face of makeup is a total waste. Why dedicate time to get that eyeliner just right, only to have it melting off just a few short steps out in the sun? It's pointless.
However, there are makeup formulas that can stand up to a sweaty situation. While many products are labeled "long-wear," the products ahead are athlete-approved. From soccer players to surfers, we asked the pros to share the cosmetics they rely on in the most extreme conditions (and we mean, extreme). These products can withstand punches in the face, running across a field, and dunking underwater. So, your daily sweat output should be an easy task.
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Vie was the first Latina fencer to represent the United States at the Pan American Games last year, and she currently ranks No. 5 in the country. No matter how big the stage, when Vie puts on her uniform, it's showtime. "I think of a fencing competition as a show and that means looking like I’m ready to perform," she says. "So, my hair and makeup have to be on point."
Pacifica Aquarian Gaze Water-Resistant Long Lash Mineral Mascara
As a vegan and ecotarian, Vie sticks to cruelty-free makeup brands. Her favorite waterproof mascara comes from Pacifica, and it's petroleum-free and kelp-infused. “I can wear this the day of a competition and know that it will last while I'm sweating under my uniform," she says.
Pacifica Aquarian Gaze Water-Resistant Long Lash Mineral Mascara, $14, available at Pacifica
Wet n Wild Color Icon Kohl Liner Pencil
While you might assume that athletes avoid eyeliner during a competition, Vie swears by this pick that stays on her eyes and off her face while fencing. “This black, long-wear eyeliner is actually the most natural-looking eyeliner that I have ever used," she says. "It's a little less of an intense black than others, so it still gives me the natural look that I want when I’m competing."
Wet n Wild Color Icon Kohl Liner Pencil-Baby's Got Black, $0.99, available at Wet n Wild
There's no messing with Thomas, who is an accomplished Jiu-Jitsu fighter, mixed martial artist, and professional boxer. Last year, she won the MSG Ring Masters Championships in New York City in front of a sold-out crowd. While in the ring, Thomas uses products that can survive 10 rounds — and the punches that come with each one.
It Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye Concealer
With extremely intense training, Thomas set out to find budge-proof makeup that keeps her looking awake, including this go-to product. “Working out six days a week, twice a day is exhausting," she says. "So, when I look for makeup, I want it to make me look like I am well-rested, even as I'm in the middle of training for a big fight."
It Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye, $26, available at It Cosmetics
CoverGirl LashBlast Volume Waterproof Mascara
Forget waterproof, this punch-proof mascara earned a spot in Thomas' makeup bag due to its resilience. “In female sports, it's not often we're wearing extensive makeup," she says. "I have worn this [mascara] during multiple fights, and it doesn’t smear one bit — even after a few jabs to the face."
COVERGIRL LashBlast Volume Waterproof Mascara, $6.99, available at Target
It Cosmetics Your Skin But Better CC+ Cream with SPF
Growing up on the beaches of Long Island, Thomas loves to be under the sun, and this foundation with SPF has proved itself at the beach and in the ring. “This product has lasted me during long runs, training sessions, and modeling shoots," she says. "But the SPF is why I have worked it into my core group of cosmetics."
It Cosmetics CC+ Cream with SPF 50+, $39, available at Ulta Beauty
A former beauty pageant titleholder (Miss Hawaii Filipina 2017), Kimberly Yap transitioned into competitive surfing a couple years ago, and it's critical that her products can withstand full submersion. "Having products that are waterproof in the salty ocean is incredibly important to me," she tells Refinery29. "But at the same time, I love staying natural and being true to myself while enhancing my features."
Yap tries to avoid wearing too much makeup while competing — because, well... water — but one product you can surely catch her in is highlighter. It's her glowing trick to standing out. "This gives my skin a long-lasting glow in even the toughest waves," she says. "It’s small and compact, so it’s easy to carry around and a little goes a long way."
Becca Shimmering Skin Perfector Pressed Highlighter, $39, available at Sephora
It Cosmetics CC+ Cream Oil-Free Matte with SPF 40
Competing out in the ocean, Yap is exposed to a lot of sun. "This foundation can go from early morning photo shoots straight to surfing, all without causing breakouts or oily skin," she says. "Plus, with the SPF 40, I never have to worry about sun damage while I’m out on the water."
It Cosmetics CC+ Cream Oil-Free Matte with SPF 40, $39, available at Sephora
NYX Professional Makeup Soft Matte Lip Cream
The last necessity in Yap's wave-proof routine? Long-wear lipstick. "You just need one application and these little gems will stay on through long nights on the catwalk as a pageant contestant or adventures through the Hawaiian jungles," she says. "Not to mention, they're affordable."
NYX Professional Makeup Soft Matte Lip Cream, Leon, $5.99, available at Amazon
A rising star in the National Women's Soccer League, Hill currently plays forward for the Orlando Pride. During her years playing in the Florida sun and at the University of Connecticut, Hill found her favorite budge-proof makeup products that can make it up and down the field.
Maybelline Lash Sensational Waterproof Mascara
For game days, Hill relies on one long-lasting makeup product. "With the amount we sweat, a waterproof mascara is a must," she says. "It also rains a lot through the summers here in Florida, and I like knowing my mascara won't end up all over my face before halftime."
Maybelline Eye Lash Sensational Waterproof Mascara , $6.99, available at Target
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This weekend, Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) is planning raids in several U.S. cities, reports the New York Times. As immigration activists protest in communities around the country, raids are expected to begin Sunday, July 14. Metropolitan areas in Atlanta, Baltimore, Chicago, Denver, Houston, Los Angeles, Miami, New York, and San Francisco may expect raids against undocumented individuals and families, reports USA Today. Here’s what you need to know if if ICE knocks on your door.
The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) has helpfully posted a guide on their Twitter account in English and several other languages, including Spanish, Portuguese, Arabic, Chinese, and Korean. The ACLU wants to remind all Americans — documented and undocumented — of their rights if approached by an ICE agent at home or at work.
First, if ICE shows up at your home, remember that you do not have to open the door. You can ask to see a warrant from a judge, and if they do not produce one, you do not need to let them in. If they do, remain silent and ask for a lawyer immediately. You do not have to say anything to ICE agents without a lawyer present. If they come to your work, you have the right not to consent to a search. You can ask if you are free to leave. If you are arrested, again, stay silent and ask for a lawyer immediately.
The most important thing to remember is that, wherever ICE agents may pick up, you don’t have to say a word to them. You are entitled to legal representation.
A federal judge temporarily blocked three anti-abortion laws in Arkansas only minutes before they were set to take effect Wednesday, including a measure banning the procedure after 18 weeks of pregnancy and a requirement advocates say would had led to the closure of Little Rock Family Planning Services, the only clinic in the state offering surgical abortion care.
The measures are being challenged by the clinic, Planned Parenthood Great Plains, the ACLU’s Reproductive Freedom Project, and other groups. U.S. District Judge Kristine Baker issued a 159-page ruling blocking the measures for the next 14 days, saying they would "cause ongoing and imminent irreparable harm to the plaintiffs and their patients."
The measures are three of 12 anti-abortion bills Arkansas lawmakers have passed this past legislative session alone. House Bill 1439 banned the procedure after 18 weeks of pregnancy, Senate Bill 2 made it a felony for health providers to perform an abortion if they believed the woman asked for her pregnancy to be terminated because fetal Down Syndrome was detected, and Senate Bill 448 required that physicians who perform surgical abortions be board-certified and board-eligible in obstetrics and gynecology.
Advocates said SB 448 would have done the most damage to Arkansans' abortion access. The state currently only has two abortion providers, Planned Parenthood and Little Rock Family Planning Services, both of which are based in Little Rock. According to the lawsuit, Planned Parenthood only offers medication-induced abortions, which are offered up to 10 weeks into a pregnancy. At Family Planning Services, which does offer surgical abortion care, the only provider isn't OB/GYN board-eligible or certified. If SB 448 were to go into effect, about 1,800 Arkansans a year — or 66% of those seeking to terminate their pregnancies in the state — would not be able to access abortions, according to evidence introduced before the court.
Arkansas ranks #49 nationwide when it comes to healthcare, according to a U.S. News & World Report ranking published earlier this year. Baker's decision comes at a moment when anti-choice lawmakers around the country are attacking access to abortion at an unprecedented pace. According to the Guttmacher Institute, at least 378 abortion restrictions were introduced between January 1 and May 20 of this year, 40% of which seek to ban the procedure.
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Nastia Liukin is a name to know in gymnastics, with plenty of hardware to prove it. But when she isn't sporting a gym bag, she carries around a jam-packed purse just like the rest of us. So for our latest installment of Spill It, we brought in Nastia to give us a glimpse inside one of her favorite bags — revealing a little bit more about her and the items she always keeps on her.
As an avid traveler, Nastia keeps plenty of things on hand for spontaneous trips: comfy socks, sunscreen, a passport. Her perfume and compact mirror are always accessible, snacks are a must-have, and she keeps both journal and pen within reach. Travel necessities aside, she also makes sure to carry a U by Kotex click-compact tampon at all times. For something that takes up negligible space, it can be a lifesaver, whether she’s expecting her period or not. Check out the video above to see what else Nastia has in her bag.
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Jennifer Lopez wears many hats. Dancer, singer, queen of the rom-com, TV talent competition judge, beauty icon, mom of twins, bae to A-Rod, wellness influencer. The list goes on. And today, on Jenny from the Block's 50th birthday, her career is showing no signs of slowing down. According to Forbes, J.Lo has earned $43 million so far this year alone. And below, we're breaking down the Bronx superstar's prolific career and the big bucks she has deservedly raked in along the way.
Her music career lifted off simultaneously alongside her acting career with the release of her first album in 1999, On the 6, which went platinum within weeks of its debut. Her second album, J.Lo, hit number one on the pop charts, and she has since released six more studio albums. By 2018, she had sold 80 million records worldwide and 40 million albums. She is also the first woman to have both a number-one album and film — J.Lo and The Wedding Planner — in the same week.
Lopez is no stranger to the small screen either, having served as a judge on American Idol for five seasons. For her first season, she earned $12 million, and her salary grew to $20 million for her second. And now she serves as a judge and executive producer on World of Dance. She also starred in NBC's Shades of Blue from 2016 to 2018.
Shopping for beauty products is always way more fun when you can save a couple bucks. Well, calling all Tata Harper fans, because the brand is celebrating the founder's birthday by giving shoppers the gift of 20% off. That's right: It's someone else's birthday, but you're getting all the presents.
From July 25 - 31, the farm-to-bottle skin-care brand is offering 20% off all Tata Harper orders over $100 with promo code BIRTHDAY. (Everything is eligible for the discount, with the exception of value sets and gift cards.) So if you're running low on your HG favorites, like the fan-favorite Regenerating Cleanser, or acne-fighting Clarifying Mask, now's the best time to stock up. Click through the slideshow to see what other skin and makeup gems we're adding to cart.
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This mask is as green as Tata's iconic packaging, and is made with salicylic and lactic acids for exfoliating and pore-penetrating benefits. (Note: Feeling a slight tingling sensation is totally normal.)
Tata Harper Clarifying Mask, $72, available at Tata Harper
A little bit of daily exfoliation goes a long way. Maintain a glowy complexion with a cleanser with trace amounts of BHA to gently slough off dead skin cells on a regular basis.
Tata Harper Regenerating Cleanser - 125ML, $84, available at Tata Harper
Taking off your makeup just got way chicer. Remove every last bit of dirt and oil with a vitamin- and antioxidant-rich cleanser that leaves your skin feeling hydrated, happy, and ready for your next skin-care step.
Tata Harper Nourishing Oil Cleanser, $82, available at Tata Harper
Made with a trifecta of AHAs, BHAs, and antioxidants, Tata Harper's exfoliating serum gets you brighter, clearer skin over time. Just be sure to wear it with a sunscreen (which you should be doing anyway) since it can make skin extra sun-sensitive.
Tata Harper Resurfacing Serum, $88, available at Tata Harper
Fade dark spots or hyperpigmentation the gentle way with a hydrating essence made brightening botanical extracts. (Pro tip: Use it before your vitamin C serum for maximum glow-boosting benefits.)
Tata Harper Concentrated Brightening Essence, $160, available at Tata Harper
We get it: You might not want to load up on thick lotions during the summer. Answer? A lightweight gel hydrator made with hyaluronic acid – a game-changing ingredient for delivering long-lasting moisture and bounce without clogging pores.
Tata Harper Hyaluronic Gel Moisturizer, $116, available at Tata Harper
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In our seriesSalary Stories, women with long-term career experience open up about the most intimate details of their jobs: compensation. It’s an honest look at how real people navigate the complicated world of negotiating, raises, promotions, and job loss, with the hope it will give young women more insight into how to advocate for themselves — and maybe take a few risks along the way.
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Current Industry & Title: Tech/Associate Program Manager
Starting Salary: $42,500 in 2013
Current Salary: $115,000 (plus 10% bonus and RSUs that vest in 3 years)
Number Of Years Employed: 6
Biggest Salary Jump: I jumped $39,000 this year by leaving my old company for a new one, working in the same role and same city.
Biggest Salary Drop: I have only gone up!
Biggest Salary Negotiation Regret: "I wish I'd negotiated my job at my second company from the get-go. They once brought in a direct report (for me) who was making $10k more than I was, in a cheaper city. When I asked them why, they said it was because the cost of living in Seattle was higher than the Bay Area. I was so taken aback by the fact that they were clearly wrong that I didn’t even know what to say. I only knew that the only way to make more money in this role was to become a manager."
Best Salary-Related Advice: "Interview constantly to know your worth, and always ask for more than you think they can offer. I try to find specific salary information about the company that I am interviewing at using Glassdoor. Once I know the range, I ask for a minimum 15% more. They’re ready to negotiate, and they expect that from you. All anybody can do is say no, and they’ll usually come back with some sort of counter that’s better than what they first offered. You’ll always be better off, and it’s easier than trying to get promoted internally."
"After I took an unpaid internship at my first company, moved to L.A. (from Atlanta), and worked for a summer running their program, I became a full-time hire. The company was a global internship matching provider for college students and companies in certain key cities (London, Los Angeles, NYC, Hong Kong, Barcelona, Paris, etc). They curated opportunities to help place students and organized visa paperwork, housing, transportation, and activities for summer internships.
"My work entailed cold calling companies in L.A. (mostly in film and fashion) to get them to agree to special consideration and interviews with my assigned college students. I prepped the students and helped them develop their résumés for the opportunities and then ensured their commitment once they were offered a position. I also dealt with a LOT of helicopter parents who were very involved in the process (lol)."
"I knew my first job wasn't something to make me happy, but it got me my first 'grown-up' position. While I had moved to L.A. to run the summer internship program, the company was based out of Redwood City, CA, during the rest of the year. When they offered me a position full-time, I was expected to relocate up there by the beginning of September, and I did.
"As soon as I could do it, I began interviewing for anything I thought I might be interested in and qualified for. It was amazing, the difference in responses I got with just one year of 'real' experience. I saw a job opportunity on Indeed for office manager at a technology recruiting company and applied right away. They brought me in for interviews after a couple of phone screens, and they liked my events background experience. When I started, I was in charge of the San Mateo office and also managed a remote downtown Austin sales office. I was in charge of all office supplies and facilities management, recruiting coordination for day-of, office meal catering, event planning, office budget creation and reporting, and eventually new office openings and relocation."
"I was promoted quickly. At the time of my promotion, I was managing three offices by myself (two remotely), and they decided to hire two office managers to work under me in the remote offices. They changed my title to regional workplace manager as part of the promotion, but told me that my new hires would be making $55,000 (while I was still making $45,000), even though these hires lived in cheaper cities than the Bay Area. So I was leveled up to $55,000 to match the people I was supposed to manage, and said they would later adjust it so I eventually made more."
"I got a $5,000 raise at the end of this year as part of the promise I was made back in March."
"I was offered the chance to join a different team in the same company, after working with them as a regional workplace manager on office builds for the West Coast. I jumped at the chance, but they wouldn't give me a raise until nine months in, since they said I wasn't technically qualified for the role.
"The job was supposed to be located at the company headquarters in Austin, TX, but I told them I didn’t want to move there ever (I’m not a girl who likes that kind of heat). I leveraged the fact that I would be working on projects in San Francisco, Seattle, Tokyo, and Sydney as part of why it was better that I stay on the West Coast time zone. They agreed, and I got to stay in California."
"This was the raise I got after working almost a full year in the role and 'proving myself.' I wish I had argued, but I was so excited for the opportunity to move into a completely new role that included global travel. I also later discovered that my colleagues (who were ranked at the same level as me and living in Austin, TX) were making a minimum of $15k more than I was, even after this raise."
"My role was restructured into a different department. Nothing about my job changed, but I was given a bump."
"I made a lateral move in the program department to support a software development team. They dropped my title to associate, though, because even though my 'level' didn't change, this team used different titles.
"At the time, I knew there was no difference in salary between the two jobs, so I didn’t honestly care what arbitrary title they wanted to use. I’d seen before, as my job title changed but nothing else changed about the role, that it’s kind of meaningless. What is an associate role in one company/department is a senior role somewhere else. It’s about the skills you develop and the value you provide."
"I finally began interviewing for roles at other companies, after trying to have conversations with my manager about how I did not feel compensated at the market level in San Francisco. It turned out she was not my compensation manager and didn't even know what I made.
"In over a year in this role, I was directly responsible for three separate teams (over 40 people) and helped on an ad hoc basis with two more teams, as those teams no longer had program managers. But I knew that I was always going to have to play catch-up with my salary, so I had to leave to make more. Plus, I wanted to see how the role of a program manager differed across companies.
"I eventually found a new opportunity for the same position at a very large multimedia software company, with about half of the responsibilities and almost a 50% increase in salary. I also received RSUs that begin to vest in a year.
"Finding this new opportunity has validated my feelings that I was working harder and not smarter when it came to my career. I regret that I let imposter syndrome affect me for so long. I didn’t come with some of the traditional background as I got into more technical roles, and I felt like I was just lucky to have the opportunity. I was providing valuable hard work for the teams I worked with, and they clearly appreciated it, but they weren’t able to affect my compensation in any real way, so it was very frustrating. I could feel myself becoming resentful over how hard I worked and how much I struggled to live on my below-market salary in one of the most expensive cities in America. I didn’t like how it affected my attitude — so I finally decided to do something about it."
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Every decade has its iconic swimwear style. The 1930s gave us a proto-wresting suit with full-coverage legs, knitted with a new-fangled material called rayon. The 1950s saw the rise of the bikini, which revealed the forbidden belly button. And of course, the late '80s and '90s brought us leg openings that climbed from mid-thigh to the hipbone, elongating the already-lengthy gams on the “supers” — Naomi, Cindy, Linda, Christy, et al. — and becoming the emblematic silhouette of the crimped-hair decade.
The great thing about this last style is its hyper-flattering properties — you don’t have to be a Claudia Schiffer reincarnate in order for this suit to give your legs the appearance of being several miles long. Because it’s such a universally flattering style, we decided it was time to start browsing for our favorites. Click through to see the best high-cut (sometimes called “French cut”) bathing costumes that we dug up, from fire engine-red Baywatch throwbacks to thoroughly modern tie-dye bikinis — because summer’s not over yet, and you still have a lot of swimming to do.
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Just like piercing infections, a tattoo gone wrong is hard to identify, but there are some red flags to look out for. Is the tattoo tender and swollen? Do you see pus secretions? Are you feeling feverish? If you answered yes to all of the above, you may have an infection.
Before you self-diagnose these symptoms based on a frantic Google search, allow a pro to weigh in. We asked dermatologist Matthew Lin, MD, FAAD, everything we need to know about identifying, treating, and preventing an infected tattoo. Read his advice ahead — but first, call your doctor.
Are tattoo infections common?
According to Dr. Lin, contracting an infection isn't an uncommon scenario. Some published surveys have found that 0.5% to 6% of people with a tattoo have experienced infectious complications. Dr. Lin explains that your chances of infection increase if proper tattooing techniques and protocols aren't followed or used, like sterilized surfaces and equipment, single-use needles, and disposable gloves. Even with the proper precautions, a break in the skin means there is potential for bacteria to creep into what is essentially an open wound and cause an infection.
To be clear, the tattoo artist isn't always to blame: Dr. Lin notes that lazy aftercare routines could disrupt the healing process and cause an infection, too.
What are signs of an infected tattoo?
After getting your tattoo, it's totally normal for the area to be slightly tender and swollen, says Dr. Lin. However, if you notice swelling and pain a few days after, this could indicate an infection. "Persistent bumps, bubbles, or pustules at the site of tattoo may also indicate infection," says Dr. Lin. "Crusting, pus, warmth, fever, and shakes are later symptoms of an infection." If you have any concerns about infection, please consult a medical professional immediately.
Photographed by Beth Sacca.
How do I treat an infected tattoo?
Dr. Lin recommends first calling your dermatologist for an appointment if you notice any of the aforementioned symptoms. "Your dermatologist will take a swab of the pus and send it to the laboratory for microscopy, culture, and sensitivity," Dr. Lin explains. "This will allow identification of the causative bacteria and guide the appropriate antibiotic therapy." From there, a combination of topical and oral antibiotics is normally prescribed, but this all depends on the severity of the infection. In severe or atypical cases, intravenous antibiotics may be required. Whether you consult a derm or not, make sure to reach out to a medical professional for treatment — don't DIY this remedy at home.
How long does it take an infected tattoo to heal?
It depends. Mild infections can be treated within two weeks, while more severe cases may require several months of antibiotic treatment, says Dr. Lin.
"It is imperative to keep the tattooed skin clean and moist at all times while the tattoo remains fresh," says Dr. Lin. "The skin should be washed daily with soap and water and then dried with a clean paper towel or air dried." Make sure your hands are clean when touching or washing the tattoo — and avoid washcloths, towels, bath sponges, or loofahs; they likely carry bacteria. Once the tattoo is dry, apply a thin layer of ointment to the area. After you're a few days into the healing process, swap out the heavier ointment for a fragrance-free lotion and apply it at least twice a day. Dr. Lin adds that you should never touch your new tattoo without washing your hands first, don't pick or peel the scabs, and generally, just leave well enough alone.
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Kris Jenner 's trademark lawyers must be awfully busy. On the heels of the Kim Kardashian West's disastrous announcement of her "solutions-based" shape wear line Kimono (that name was quickly kiboshed), TMZ is reporting that her husband Kanye West is filing the paperwork to trademark his church-themed Sunday Service merchandise.
That means, if granted, Ye would have exclusive ownership of clothing, dresses, footwear, headwear, jackets loungewear, scarves, shirts, socks and clothing tops under the umbrella "Sunday Service". We got our first look at West's offering during his Coachella set in April, when he sold his branded 8-piece collection, including neutral-hued items bearing slogans often heard in church.
As The Fashion Law pointed out, when someone files an application to the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office and a trademark is actually issued, they get the “exclusive right to use the mark nationwide in connection with the goods/services listed in the registration.” West, if able to trademark "Sunday Service" in relation to his clothing, would have the right to file infringement lawsuits if ahyone uses the term on “competing or related goods and services.” Oh, lord.
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A little over two years ago, the Food and Drug Administration claimed that it had identified an association between textured breast implants and anaplastic large cell lymphoma, which is not a breast cancer but a rare type of non-Hodgkin's lymphoma that starts in white blood cells and is commonly referred to as BIA-ALCL.
In connection with these findings, today the FDA has called on breast implant manufacturer Allergan to recall a number of its BIOCELL textured breast implant products from the market. Allergan has complied with the request for recall, now calling on suppliers and doctors offices to halt the sale and implantation of its various models of textured implants, including Natrelle Saline-Filled breast implants, Natrelle Silicone-Filled breast implants, Natrelle Inspira Silicone-Filled breast implants, and Natrelle 410 Highly Cohesive Anatomically Shaped Silicone-Filled breast implants. The recall also includes tissue expanders that are used by patients prior to breast augmentation or reconstruction, like the Natrelle 133 Plus Tissue Expander and the Natrelle 133 Tissue Expander with Suture Tabs.
"Although the overall incidence of BIA-ALCL appears to be relatively low, once the evidence indicated that a specific manufacturer’s product appeared to be directly linked to significant patient harm, including death, the FDA took action to alert the firm to new evidence indicating a recall is warranted to protect women’s health," FDA Principal Deputy Commissioner Amy Abernethy, MD, said in a statement.
In response to the news, Allergan issued this statement to Refinery29: "The company is taking this action as a precaution following notification of recently updated global safety information concerning the uncommon incidence of breast implant-associated anaplastic large cell lymphoma (BIA-ALCL) provided by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Importantly, the FDA and other health authorities have not recommended removal or replacement of textured breast implants or tissue expanders in asymptomatic patients. Patient safety is a priority for Allergan and patients are advised to speak with their plastic surgeon about the risk and benefits of their implant type should they have any concerns.”
Research shows that cases of BIA-ALCL are more specifically linked to textured implants, which were developed in response to earlier models that had smooth surfaces and were prone to scarring or firmness. "[It] appears to be, from a lot of the data and studies, related to stimulation, chronic inflammation, or chronic irritation of bacteria," William Adams, MD, a board-certified plastic surgeon who has studied BIA-ALCL, told us in 2017. The reason why it's associated with textured implants is because they have a higher surface area and could therefore permit high numbers of bacteria around the implants, Dr. Adams adds.
In a chart that's just been updated on the FDA's BIA-ALCL page, the government agency notes that there have been 573 unique cases of BIA-ALCL reported globally and 33 patient deaths, which is an increase of 116 cases and 24 deaths compared to reports released earlier this year. Of the 573 unique cases of BIA-ALCL, 481 had Allergan implants at the time of diagnosis. Of the 13 deaths in which officials identified the manufacturer, 12 were confirmed to have an Allergan breast implant. There are no reports of deaths associated with tissue expanders.
The same FDA study also found that the risk of BIA-ALCL with Allergan's textured implants was approximately six times greater than the risk of the cancer associated with other manufacturers' textured implants marketed in the U.S. However, the FDA is continuing to monitor all cases. "We are continuing our assessment to determine whether the risk of developing BIA-ALCL is limited to specific models of textured, or all textured breast implants," Jeff Shuren, MD, director of the FDA’s Center for Devices and Radiological Health, said in the FDA statement. "We continue to advise women and health care professionals that the use of breast implants is associated with a risk of developing BIA-ALCL and that the risk is greater with textured implants."
As of right now, the FDA is not recommending that women who currently have the recalled implants and are asymptomatic get them removed due to "the low risk of developing BIA-ALCL." However, as with all implants, it is important to maintain regular breast exams and seek medical attention if you experience persistent swelling or pain, which tend to be the first symptoms of BIA-ALCL. BIA-ALCL is rare, but when detected early, it's easily treated, and in most cases, simply removing the implant and scar tissue can cure it, says Debra Johnson, MD, a board-certified plastic surgeon in Sacramento, CA.
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We may be 15 months away from Election Day, but the 2020 presidential election is already well underway.
Currently, 25 Democrats are attempting to win the party's nomination and challenge President Donald Trump on November 3, 2020. But between today and Election Day, there are dozens of important dates you should keep in mind: the schedule of Democratic presidential primary debates, the voter registration deadline in your state, the primary elections, the Republican and Democratic conventions, and much more.
Keeping track of all of these dates can be overwhelming, so we're here to help. Ahead, a list of the most important dates of the 2020 election. Mark your calendars!
The Democratic National Committee (DNC) has scheduled 12 presidential primary debates. The first debate took place in late June. Most dates and locations for the upcoming debates remain TBD, but we'll update this list as more information becomes available.
Second Debate: Tuesday, July 30, and Wednesday, July 31, at the Fox Theatre in Detroit, MI.
Third Debate: Thursday, September 12, and Friday, September 13. The location has not been disclosed yet.
Fourth Debate: October 2019.
Fifth Debate: November 2019.
Sixth Debate: December 2019.
Seventh Debate: January 2020.
Eighth Debate: January or February 2020.
Ninth Debate: February 2020.
10th Debate: February 2020.
11th Debate: March 2020.
12th Debate: April 2020.
When is the voter registration deadline in my state?
Voting is one of the most powerful ways you can make your voice heard. Every state except North Dakota requires you to register before voting in an election. That process can be confusing, so check out this guide on what you need to know about voter registration.
February 2020: Iowa (Monday 3), New Hampshire (Tuesday 11), South Carolina (Saturday 15 for Republicans and Saturday 29 for Democrats), Nevada (Saturday 22 for Democrats and Tuesday 25 for Republicans)
March 2020: Alabama, Alaska, American Samoa, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Maine, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, and Virginia (Tuesday 3, a.k.a. Super Tuesday); Kansas and Kentucky (Saturday 7 for Republicans); Puerto Rico (Sunday 8 for Republicans); Hawaii, Idaho, Michigan, Mississippi, Missouri, North Dakota, Ohio, and Washington (Tuesday 10); Virgin Islands (Thursday 12 for Republicans); Washington, D.C.; Guam; Wyoming (Saturday 14 for Republicans); Northern Marianas (Saturday 14 for Democrats); American Samoa (Tuesday 24 for Republicans); Georgia (Tuesday 24); Wyoming (TBD for Democrats).
April 2020: North Dakota (Friday 3 through Sunday 5 for Republicans); Alaska and Hawaii (Saturday 4 for Democrats); Louisiana (Saturday 4); Wisconsin (Tuesday 7); New York (Tuesday 21 for Republicans and Tuesday 28 for Democrats); Connecticut, Delaware, Maryland, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island (Tuesday 28)
May 2020: Kansas and Guam (Saturday 2 for Democrats), Indiana (Tuesday 5), Nebraska and West Virginia (Tuesday 12), Kentucky (Tuesday 19 for Democrats), Oregon (Tuesday 19)
June 2020: Montana, New Jersey, New Mexico, and South Dakota (Tuesday 2); Virgin Islands (Saturday 6 for Democrats); Puerto Rico (Sunday 7 for Democrats); Washington, D.C. (Tuesday 16 for Democrats)
When is the Democratic National Convention?
The convention will be held in Milwaukee, WI, between July 13 and July 16, 2020.
When is the Republican National Convention?
The convention will be held in Charlotte, NC, between August 24 and August 27, 2020.
When is Election Day 2020?
The presidential election will be held on Tuesday, November 3, 2020.
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The season of heat waves might not come to mind as perfect tattoo weather, but once you see the designs that are currently trending online, you may just change your tune. From thighs to backs, the placement trends sweeping Instagram are perfect for summer clothing and long days outside.
Need help figuring out exactly where to start? All the inspiration you need for the four sweet spots to consider inking this summer, ahead,
Thigh Tattoos
You'll rarely find a dainty tattoo on someone's thigh. Expect thick, bold and clean lines.
Some people love tattoos packed with meaning — and this unlikely jellyfish option is no exception. It's said that the free-swimming marine creatures represent finding balance in your life and going with the flow.
Last year, Sophie Turner paid a visit to tattoo artist Curt Montgomery for this rad thigh tattoo. The result: A minimal outline of a woman — a woman suspiciously similar to the one on her husband Joe Jonas' arm.
Good news: Montgomery tells us that thigh tattoos are some of the easiest to create. "I always say, for me to do a really nice tattoo, hopefully, it's on the upper thigh," he says. "That's because it's a flat surface and the pain is very tolerable since you're not going to move around a whole bunch."
When minimal is your thing, you can still include the tiny details that make your tattoo stand apart from everyone else's.
This design takes on two trends at once, including watercolor ink.
... or so big the art expands from your collarbone down to your elbow, this is one sweet spot for summer you don't want to miss.
Back Tattoos
The best part about back tattoos? You've got tons of surface area to play with and cover in art.
For singer Lauren Jauregui, this includes trailing script right down her spine.
Not a fan of dainty ink? Go for something large and symbolic instead.
Just below the nape of the neck is a popular spot for a medium-sized design.
Tattoo artist Jess Chen proves that color makes any design that much more unique.
These floral stems are equal parts realistic and whimsical.
Ankle Tattoos
UK-based illustrator and tattoo artist Lotte Vanns says there's something coy about a tattoo placement that's easily revealed by an unrolled sock.
But not everyone wants to play coy...
The area may be small, but you have tons of space for creativity down there, like this pointillism-inspired dot work that greets almost everyone who looks down to admire your shoe game.
Consider a design that twists from the side and finishes somewhere below the back of your ankle.
Add some jewelry and no one can avoid noticing your ankle art.
Swiping on deodorant and going about the rest of your day should be easier than getting Face ID to actually recognize your face, but a one-and-done solution isn't the case for everyone. For some people, especially those with sensitive skin, ingredients like aluminum, baking soda, or even fragrance can cause serious irritation and discomfort.
Luckily, in the same way that you'd look for gentle formulas suitable for your face, there are also deodorants on the market created just for sensitive skin. Plus, with new advancements in even the most natural formulas, you don't have to sacrifice preventing odor or sweat for a product that won't make your pits hurt.
Ahead, we rounded up 8 of our favorite deodorants for sensitive skin, so you have one less thing to worry about during the next inevitable heat wave.
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Schmidt's Jasmine Tea Sensitive Skin Deodorant
B.O. will be the least of your worries with this neutralizing formula, which smells like delicate jasmine blossom with fresh, woodsy undertones of green tea.
Schmidt's Jasmine Tea Sensitive Skin Deodorant, $7.99, available at Target
Dove Antiperspirant Deodorant, Sensitive Skin
If you prefer a spray formula, Dove's bestselling Dry Spray has a sensitive skin-friendly unscented antiperspirant complete with built-in moisturizers, and zero alcohol to cut down on irritation.
Dove Antiperspirant Deodorant, Sensitive Skin, $6.89, available at Amazon
Native Coconut & Vanilla Deodorant
This deodorant has over 5,000 five-star reviews, and for good reason: Fans love it for its delightful smell and the fact that it actually lasts.
Native Coconut & Vanilla Deodorant, $11.99, available at Target.com
Vichy Dry Touch Deodorant
This 24-hour formula controls odor-causing bacteria with natural deodorizers while also hydrating the skin with a blend of dry, matte-touch moisturizers.
Vichy Dry Touch Deodorant, $17, available at Vichy
This wax-oil formula was designed to be as powerful as baking soda without the potential for irritation, instead using magnesium hydroxide and a blend of natural powders and oils to fight odor as gently as possible.
Primal Pit Paste Unscented Sensitive Natural Deodorant , $9.99, available at Target
Milk + Honey Lavender, Tea Tree Baking Soda Free Deodorant No.09
Another baking soda-free formula that uses magnesium hydroxide to neutralize odor, this stick is infused with lemon peel oil and vanilla fruit oil to freshen and reduce any inflammation.
Milk & Honey Lavender, Tea Tree Baking Soda Free Deodorant No.09, $20, available at Ulta Beauty
PiperWai Activated Charcoal Deodorant
Target's natural beauty selection includes this charcoal deodorant, which is made with 100% natural ingredients. Don't be alarmed by the sight of the charcoal: This formula was created for sensitive skin, and goes on invisible as it sinks in.
PiperWai PiperWai Activated Charcoal Deodorant , $11.99, available at Target
Kopari Coconut Deodorant
If you swear by all things coconut oil, you can also get its nourishing benefits on your underarms with this deodorant, which contains charcoal and plant-based actives to rid the area of buildup and fight against odor-causing bacteria.
Kopari Beauty Coconut Deodorant, $14, available at Sephora
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It’s no secret that here on the shopping team, Urban Outfitters is a go-to for a surprising breadth of affordable and pleasantly off-kilter wardrobe staples — both from the retailer’s own imprint and from classically cool footwear and accessories brands like FILA, Fjallraven, and Herschel Supply Co. Whether its a stretchy bra top that we could see ourselves wearing all summer long with high-waisted skirts or a pair of patchwork pants from just-revived mid-aughts stalwart Kimchi Blue, the Philadelphia-based retailer is always coming up with pieces that mix wearability and now-ness in perfect proportion. And don’t forget that they also stock a veritable estate’s worth of boho furniture, home decor, and gifts.
We certainly know what we’re shopping on the brand’s website, but we wanted to know: what is everyone else buying? We reached out to our friends at UO, who filled us in on the best-selling items across the board — including bubblegum-colored mini backpacks, denim dresses, broken-in comforter sets, tie-dyed slipdressess, the ever-present monster sneaker, and the tiniest waffle iron we’ve ever seen. Of course, there were some surprises — there’s so much to page through on Urban’s website that even those of us with daily-visitor status (guilty!) don’t catch everything all the time. Click through to see our picks from Urban’s most popular items, to find what your wardrobe might be missing.
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There are few better feelings than enabling your “out of office” email before going on vacation. Personally, when I perform this OOO ritual, I like to play Shania Twain’s 1997 hit “Come on Over” and relish the lyrics: “Get a life, get a grip, get away somewhere, take a trip.”
Going out into the world is fun, and science shows that going on vacation is actually good for your health and productivity. Still, some vacations can make you feel sluggish — especially if all you do is drink, eat, hit the beach, and repeat. That’s why fitness retreats and wellness-oriented vacations are on the rise. Here are a few that will let you relax, but also make you get your sweat on.
AKT Retreats
AKT Retreats
Location: East Hampton, Martha’s Vineyard, and New York City
Price: Rates starting at $1,000 for non-members and $500 for members. Email retreats@theakt.com for more information.
One thing to know about workouts with Anna Kaiser Training: You’ll sweat. A lot. Her method is easy on the joints, but tough in general. This summer, the personal trainer for the likes of Kelly Ripa, Sarah Jessica Parker, and Shakira hosted a retreat in East Hampton, and has an upcoming one in Martha’s Vineyard and another in New York City in October. The immersive experiences include two classes each day, and healthy dinners crafted by Kaiser and celebrity chef Tricia Williams. Plus it’s on the beach, so you’ll have plenty of downtime to recover.
Impact Retreats
Impact Retreats
Locations: Anguilla and Tuscany
Prices: Anguilla prices start at $6,900, Tuscany prices start at $3,800.
Impact coach Katie Sandler created three-to-five day tailored experiences that combine luxury, wellness, and culture to “balance the mind, body and spirit for personal and professional transformation.” She does retreats in Tuscany and Anguilla. The latter incorporates daily yoga, mindfulness, and impact coaching practices in a 5-star villa.
Red Mountain Resort
Red Mountain Resort
Location: Ivins, Utah
Price: The Essential retreat starts at $335 per person, and the Ultimate Essential starting rate is $426 for double occupancy.
The retreats at this haven near Snow Canyon Park include daily guided hikes at varying levels, and three healthy gourmet meals a day. They offer fitness, wellness, and personal discovery classes, as well as cooking demonstrations and warm Himalayan salt stone massages from the spa.
Vaera Journeys
Vaera Journeys
Location: Varies
Price: Early bird registration: $1,400 until August 6, normal rates start at $1,800.
This retreat isn’t just about keeping your body fit, but also finding personal and professional fulfillment. Targeted at women in business, the trips were created as a way for women to network and inspire each other. Each journey is curated, and includes “mastermind sessions” from powerful female speakers. Their upcoming trip in February of 2020 will take place in Puerto Escondido, Mexico, and include active outdoor activities, as well as sessions with author and vlogger Andrea Valeria.
Prices for retreats have been updated as of 8/1/2019.
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Chances are, you know someone — or someone who knows someone — who has a tattoo of a wave. (It's like six degrees of separation, but for ocean-inspired ink.) Whether it's big or small, black or filled in with color, the wave is one popular tattoo request that we don't see going away anytime soon.
If you've been considering the beachy design for yourself, it might take some time to land on which rippled wave is right for your aesthetic. Will it be a tiny crest with simple lines, something colored in with shades of blue and green, or a large artistic piece? A quick search of Pinterest or Instagram and you'll see that there are thousands of options, making it nearly impossible to find the one you actually want to bring to your tattoo artist for inspiration.
Luckily, we've sorted through them all so you don't have to. Ahead, the best wave tattoo designs worth considering this summer.
You can't talk about waves without bringing up the nearly 200-year-old print "The Great Wave Off Kanagawa " by Japanese artist Katsushika Hokusai, which is the inspiration for a lot of wave tattoos.
Tiny tattoos, like this single-needle wave, are perfect for anyone with a low threshold for pain.
Sure, a much bigger wave — like this one by Jess Chen — will hurt a bit more, but it's impossible to deny how rad this detailed Hokusai-inspired design will look wrapped around your arm.
There are plenty of cool spots to get a tattoo, but the side-boob (just above your ribs) is the quintessential placement for summer.
We already predicted that one of the biggest tattoo trends of 2019 would be scribble art, so why not get your wave etched in this crayon-like texture?
Put a unique twist on the simple wave by turning it into a hybrid design of a sun and an ocean ripple.
These delicate designs by hand-poke artist Rosa Bluestone Perr were made for nature enthusiasts.
If the words "simple" and "minimalist" aren't in your vocabulary, get inspired by Kehlani's massive wave tattoo that covers the left side of her neck.
When it comes to painful tattoos, the foot is a hot spot for discomfort. Even so, this watery symbol will look cool when you go barefoot this summer.
You don't have to forgo intricate details in your tattoo just because it's tiny.
Yes, small wrist tattoos are still cool. The highly visible location will ensure that your wavy new ink is a conversation starter.
We can't think of a better beach accessory than a wave tattoo — just don't forget the sunscreen.
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Today: a freelance video editor who makes $70,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on an Ariana Grande T-shirt.
Occupation: Freelance Video Editor Industry: Fashion and Beauty Age: 24 Location: Los Angeles Salary: $70,000 (projected) Paycheck Amount (1x/month): $5,000–$7,000 (varies based on projects and clients, but this is my monthly goal) Gender Identity: Woman
Monthly Expenses Rent: $500 (I live with my parents in an apartment. I help contribute a bit.) Credit Card Payment: $150 Student Loans: $500 Netflix: $12.99 Hulu: $0 (I use my boyfriend's account.) Phone: $60 (I'm on my family's plan. I take care of the bill for my brother and me.) Internet: $97 Adobe Creative Cloud: $52.99 Frame.io: $15 Google Drive: $2.99 Intuit Self-Employed: $5 Saving For Japan Trip: $100–$150 Saving For A Car: $100–$150
Day One
12 a.m. — It is Monday, and I am still awake editing videos. I like to get a head start on work for the week, especially if I know it's going to be a busy one or if some projects just take up more time. This week is especially busy, since I'll be going to an Ariana Grande concert and Orange County over the weekend. I also just feel more productive and creative at night. I finish editing a rough cut for two videos. I upload them and set my scheduled emails to send at 7 a.m. — I don't want my clients to know that I'm up working late. I turn off my computer and wash my face. I've been using a cleanser from Shiseido lately, and it is a godsend. I go to sleep at around 3.
8 a.m. — I wake up and go on social media for a few minutes. I get out of bed and brush my teeth. I text my boyfriend good morning. He works in Orange County, so we're not too far from each other. I go to my desk, answer some emails, and work on three videos.
10:30 a.m. — I eat some eggs and potatoes for a late breakfast while watching a few videos on YouTube. I check my bank account and see I just got paid from two clients. I check the setlist for tonight's concert.
11 a.m. — I go back to work. I finish a video that is due the next day (yay!), and I send the video to the client. I love it when I'm able to send a project earlier than its due date.
4:30 p.m. — I finish work early, so I shower and get dressed. I finally get to wear the Ariana Grande shirt I got from H&M. I wear a black miniskirt, a windbreaker, white sneakers, and a clear backpack (only clear bags are allowed at Ariana's concerts). I do my makeup routine.
6:30 p.m. — I take a Lyft to the concert ($14.47). I'm going alone because my boyfriend has to work, but I don't mind, since I really want to see her live. $14.47
7:30 p.m. — I am finally inside the venue and head to get some merch. I buy myself a black T-shirt with a graphic of Ariana's face upside down and her tour dates on the back. I also look for the NASA hoodie for my boyfriend, but they don't have any in stock. $40
8 p.m. — I didn't eat before leaving my apartment, so I look around the stadium for food. I buy nachos and a Coke. $15
9 p.m. — I look for my seat, and it's surprisingly not bad at all. Ariana starts performing, and I sing and dance along to the music — she is great live. I was nervous that I wouldn't have fun because I was going alone, but I end up having a lot of fun.
11 p.m. — The concert ends. I leave the venue and call a Lyft. The rates are going up because it's late and there's a lot of traffic. $30.68
12 a.m. — I get home and tell my mom about the concert. I show her the T-shirt I got, and she's surprised by how many concerts Ariana has left in her tour. I wash my face, take some Advil, and go to sleep.
Daily Total: $100.15
Day Two
9 a.m. — I overslept. I grab my phone and check my emails. I get up, brush my teeth, and shower. I get started on work.
12 p.m. — A package I ordered a while ago arrives. I invested in a portable light box so I don't have to set up my lights and backdrop every time I have a shoot. I am planning on using it for smaller products, like makeup. I also got a turntable to make the product videos more dimensional, as well as a new camera bag. My family brings over tacos for lunch.
1:30 p.m. — I go back to work, editing some photos and videos and answering emails.
6:30 p.m. — I stop working and look for something to watch on TV. I watch a little bit of Wolf of Wall Street and then a Mary-Kate and Ashley movie and Agent Carter. I keep bouncing because I keep losing interest. I eat eggs and rice, as well as chips and guac (from my kitchen) for dinner. While eating, I video chat with my boyfriend for a bit. Then I play Mario Kart and Super Smash Bros. Ultimate with my brother.
9:15 p.m. — I clean out my emails (I have over 2,000, mostly from my designated email for subscriptions), then fall asleep.
Daily Total: $0
Day Three
8 a.m. — Good morning! I wake up, get ready, and start working right away. My last automatic monthly payment installment was charged to my account overnight for my faux bangs ($22). $22
11:30 a.m. — I make some spaghetti and mangoes for lunch and watch The Good Doctor. I usually never watch medical dramas, but this is a really good show.
12:45 p.m. — I go back to work and edit a few videos and answer emails. I get a package from Sephora's VIB sale — I got the Buffet serum from the Ordinary. I'm a bit scared to use this serum, because Sunday Riley's C.E.O. Vitamin C Brightening Serum didn't work out for me. I also got sunscreen from Supergoop, because I'm lacking SPF in my skin-care routine. Last, I got translucent powder from Laura Mercier, because I'm running out of powder. I don't really have much experience with powders, so I decided to use everyone's holy grail.
7 p.m. — My dad brings home cheese pizza, so I eat three slices for dinner while watching The Good Doctor. I watch a few episodes and then go to bed.
Daily Total: $22
Day Four
6 a.m. — It's Thursday, and I'm happy that I woke up early. I go on social media for a few minutes before I brush my teeth and get dressed. Even though I work remotely, I try my best to get dressed right after I wake up. It helps separate my personal and work life. I even apply some lipstick or lip gloss every now and then, just to feel like I'm actually going to work. I check emails, grab some cereal, and get started on work for the day.
12 p.m. — I eat some leftover pizza and continue working. I send a reminder to a client for overdue payment on an invoice — this happens every now and then, because freelance life.
7 p.m. — I stop working. I try my best to stop working by 5 or 6 so I can pretend that I work a 9-to-5 job. I eat dinner with my family and then watch The Good Doctor. I try the Ordinary serum before I go to bed — I hope it works. Will keep you updated.
Daily Total: $0
Day Five
8 a.m. — My alarm goes off. It's Friday. I hit snooze.
8:30 a.m. — I wake and get started on work right away. I want to get as much done as possible, since my train to Orange County departs at 2:30 (I'm visiting my boyfriend). I eat some cereal for breakfast, then edit and answer emails.
12 p.m. — I take a shower and pack my bags. I'm bringing two cameras, a Panasonic Lumix GH5 and a Canon Rebel T5i. I'll be going to a show over the weekend, and the person in charge of the show is my friend, so I want to take photos for her. I check if there are any delays today for the trains, since it's raining today — yep, it's going to be an hour late. I buy a ticket online while I'm on the site ($19). I download Lucifer, To the Bone, and Unicorn Store from Netflix on my iPad in case there's downtime. I go back to work. $19
3 p.m. — My dad drops me off at the train station, and I finish up some work while I wait.
3:30 p.m. — I hop on the train. I try to upload two short videos, but the Wi-Fi on the train is too slow. I try to use my phone data, but that doesn't work either.
5:30 p.m. — I arrive at the other end. I work a little bit more while waiting for my boyfriend. Nothing is able to upload, so I decide to wait until we get to his apartment. My boyfriend picks me up 10 minutes later, and we jam out to BTS and Ariana Grande in the car.
6 p.m. — My boyfriend and I eat at a Korean BBQ place — I missed KBBQ, I haven't had it in months. We get two orders of brisket, one order of bulgogi, and mushrooms and onion. We split the check ($20.50), and I tip the waiter ($10). Then we get some boba. We get the same drink: a brown sugar milk latte with boba ($4.25). I give it a 4/5. He gives it a 3.75/5. We also go to Target to buy travel-size makeup wipes and Tic Tacs ($4). $38.75
9 p.m. — We head to his apartment. I catch up on work and upload the videos to send to the clients. I watch a little bit of The Good Doctor while he watches videos of classical music and guitars. I do my skin-care routine. We fall asleep. My hair smells like KBBQ.
Daily Total: $57.75
Day Six
6 a.m. — I wake up early to work on videos and answer some emails. Unfortunately, the internet's slow at his apartment, so it takes a while to upload videos. I take a shower, dress up, and put on skin care and makeup.
10:45 a.m. — We leave the apartment and go to a sandwich restaurant in a very hipster building. We both get the same thing — a sandwich with goat cheese, pesto, and a lot of other ingredients I don't remember, but it was good. I pay for the both of us ($18.65), and he buys us boba. I get a vanilla matcha latte, and he gets an Oreo mocha latte. I give mine a 3/5, and he gives his drink a 4/5. $18.65
12:30 p.m. — After lunch, we visit a small comic-book store and a thrift store and look around a bit. I pay for parking for the day. $4
1:30 p.m. — We head to a mall and window shop. We've been in the mood to shop, but we're not planning on buying anything besides macarons. We go to a macaron shop and buy four macarons. $13
4 p.m. — We head to Guitar Center, because my boyfriend's had this urge to play the guitar. There are some pretty expensive guitars there. He says he's afraid to touch them because they're so expensive and asks if I've ever spent on something that pricey. I reply, "the camera in my bag." I encourage him to play with one, and I take videos of him.
4:45 p.m. — We head back to his apartment to take a break. I touch up my makeup a bit. The Laura Mercier powder sets my makeup really well.
5:35 p.m. — We leave the apartment again and head to a cultural show at the university we both went to. My friend, who's in charge of the show, pays for our tickets (thank you!). I pay for parking. $10
6 p.m. — During the pre-show, we get hungry, so my boyfriend buys us nachos and a Coke. Watching the show makes me feel very nostalgic. It was a huge part of my life when I was attending university — I performed and also was one of the show's coordinators.
10:50 p.m. — We leave and head to In-N-Out. I order animal-style fries, a hamburger, and a small drink. He orders a hamburger and a drink and eats some of my fries. $8
12 a.m. — We head to his apartment and knock out.
Daily Total: $53.65
Day Seven
8:40 a.m. — We wake up, and I do some work in the morning. I pack my things, take a shower, and get dressed. Today, I'm wearing the shirt I got from Ariana Grande's concert.
11:30 a.m. — My boyfriend drives me back to L.A. He and I will be having lunch with my parents since it's Mother's Day. I do my makeup while he puts gas in the car.
12:50 p.m. — We arrive in L.A. and put my things in my apartment. My parents, boyfriend, and I head out to a restaurant for lunch. We order a lot food, including nachos, pizza, pasta, ribs, fried calamari, and mozzarella sticks. My boyfriend and I also order vanilla cream soda for both of us — so much for cutting back on soda, but we give it a 10/10. I pay for lunch. $114.83
3:30 p.m. — We head back to my apartment and rest our stomachs. My boyfriend leaves, and my mom packs him a few snacks. I work for the rest of the day and eat pizza leftovers for dinner.
8 p.m. — I watch The Good Doctor — this show is really addicting. I do my skin-care routine. The serum I got from the Ordinary is working well. I haven't broken out, and I can see a difference in the texture of my skin. It's a lot smoother, and it does feel more hydrated. I hope it can help fade my acne scars. I fall asleep early.
Daily Total: $114.83
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