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The Real Reason Elizabeth Holmes Always Wears Dark Eye Makeup

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Elizabeth Holmes' face is everywhere right now: on the front page of newspapers, in tabloids, shown alongside press coverage of the two documentaries and full-length biopic that will soon make the now-disgraced Theranos founder even more inescapable.

When someone is dominating the news cycle to the extent that Holmes is right now, it's hard not to take a closer look at the way they style themselves for public consumption. In Holmes' case, that means black turtlenecks, dyed blonde hair, and a French manicure — and, perhaps most notably, eyes ringed with thick black eyeliner and dark eyeshadow.

Wearing dark eye makeup daily might not seem like a particularly meaningful beauty choice, but image consultants say Holmes' commitment to the look is actually quite telling. "Sometimes, a person who wants to have control or wants to exert dominance over a situation thinks they can achieve that kind of control through a more high-contrast look in their makeup," says Michael Christian, an image consultant based in Yonkers, New York.

New York City-based image consultant Carol Davidson sees that, too. "To me, it had a very strong, aggressive feel to it," she says. "It feels like that was playing into that strong, 'can play in a man's world' kind of vibe. It's almost like she's trying to assert her dominance through this intense, alpha makeup."

On the other hand, Amanda Sanders, also a New York City-based image consultant, thinks Holmes' rings of black liner could convey something much less calculated: her way of treating her makeup as an afterthought. For a woman as busy as Holmes, something as seemingly trivial as eyeliner application may have not been a real concern. "It's not out of the question that she thought, If I were to wear this makeup for going out, why wouldn't I do it again if I'm trying to be taken seriously as the head of something? " Sanders says. "That being said, it certainly is very 'listen to me, hear me' makeup."

Between the intense eye makeup and the fact that Holmes hardly ever blinks, you've got a woman who pretty clearly wants to grab your attention — and keep it.

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The Unlikely Dress Shape We're Obsessed With Right Now

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I'm a miniskirt girl through and through. I like cutoff jean shorts. I don't mind strapless tops, off the shoulder tops, or halters. And summer is prime time for all of it. But lately, I've been loving long-sleeved maxi dresses. The vintage-inspired silhouette that's new to me (but popularized by bohemian greats like Stevie Nicks) is — I would venture to say — more comfortable than any other summer threads and packs way more of a sartorial punch.

There's a difference here, too, that this dress shape has let me realize. See, it's sensual — but not sexy. It's sophisticated, but not try-hard. It immediately transforms you into of some kind of floating moon goddess. Which is just an added bonus for a frock you can wear in a rolling chair at your desk. Best of all, when worn with flats, it's a great little number for beach-to-drinks days. Point is: I'm a maxi, flowy, covered-up, but still somehow flattering dress convert. And you should try it, too. Ahead, nine options I'm crushing on.

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A jaw-droppingly cool wrap dress from Ganni with robe-like lapels and a subtle floral print.



Ganni Lorita Wrap Dress, $129, available at The Outnet

The leopards hiding within this tropical flora + fauna print dress is unexpected and waiting to fill your closet with whimsy.



Glamorous Long Sleeve Dress, $79.96, available at Nelly

A disco-friendly silhouette from Asos gets a modern update with knife pleats.



ASOS DESIGN Pleated Trapeze Maxi Dress, $72, available at ASOS

Op art stripes lend this cotton Tory Burch column a downtown edge.



Tory Burch Long Stripe Dress, $194, available at Yoox

Let all of your friends think you plucked this delicate Edwardian-feeling frock from an overstuffed rack at Brimfield — they'll never know it’s from the Southern California vintage-redux label Novella Royale.



Novella Royale The Heather Dress, $245, available at Free People

The classic, wear-all-summer shirtdress from People Tree, a London-based brand that specializes in sustainable, fair-trade products.



People Tree Ginny Stripe Shirt Dress, $180, available at Antidote+

No shrinking violets here — you’ll only stand out in this groovy floral print from Eloquii.



Eloquii Printed Wrap Maxi Dress, $79.95, available at Eloquii

Thanks to a summery organza fabrication, Staud's Rose Dress won't weigh you down, despite covering most of your extremities.



Staud Rose Dress, $295, available at Staud

& Other Stories nails the bohemian-dress archetype with a no-fuss frock in a buttercup yellow.



& Other Stories Billowy Prairie Maxi Dress, $125, available at & Other Stories

The dainty, antique-feeling print on this Chelsea28 maxi dress gets a modern update, thanks to the rich contrast of warm and cool tones.



Chelsea28 Floral Print Faux Wrap Maxi Dress, $149, available at Nordstrom

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Lady Gaga Is Bringing Pink Eyeshadow Back In A Big Way

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When it comes to eyeshadow and eye makeup, celebrities are getting real comfortable with the unexpected. Over the past year alone, we've seen unlikely shades like yellow, green, blue, and even red pop up on red carpets with the nonchalance of just another been-there-done-that smokey eye. Now, it seems that pink is making a major comeback. One quick glance at Lady Gaga 's glam meets dreamy makeup look of petal-pink eyeshadow studded with dainty rhinestones is all the proof we need.

As with any bold shade, you might be feeling some trepidation. However, as the celebs ahead have proven, with the right shade and application, pink eyeshadow can be surprisingly versatile, ranging from natural to romantic to modern to simply chic as hell. And speaking of shades, there's plenty to choose from, including dark magenta, peach, and Pepto-Bismol.

Ahead, we've rounded up our favorite pink eyeshadow looks that we can't wait to put our own spin on this spring.

For an appearance at The Daily Front Row's Fashion Awards in Los Angeles, Gaga hit the carpet arm-in-arm with her hairstylist (and friend) Frederic Aspiras in one of her dreamiest looks to date: a fuchsia smokey eye accented with press-on gemstones just below her brow bone — plus a coral-orange lip for extra oomph.

Photo: Frazer Harrison/Getty Images.

From graphic eyeliner to sparkly lashes, Lucy Boynton is Hollywood's newest makeup star to watch. She made it known that she's not letting go of that title anytime soon, showing up to the Santa Barbara International Film Festival with bright pink eyeshadow blended from her eyelids to her temples, plus red lipstick.

To give credit where it's due, the look was created by Boynton's go-to makeup artist Jo Baker, who says she found inspiration from the red of London's phone booths and the medieval era.

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While Boynton went with bubblegum pink, our patron saint of good brows, Lily Collins, recently showed us that magenta eyeshadow can have a real impact, too. At a press event for her role in the BBC production of Les Misèrables, makeup artist Vincent Oquendo went full glam and swiped on shimmery dark pink eyeshadow around Collins' eyes, making sure to leave the lightest shade for her inner corners to really make the look pop.

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For the 2019 Screen Actors Guild Awards, Yara Shahidi went with a monochrome makeup look, with sparkly baby pink eyeshadow that perfectly complemented her glossy pink lips and flushed cheeks. To achieve that vibrant pink on the eye, makeup artist Emily Cheng actually started with a lipstick — Bobbi Brown Luxe Matte Lipstick in Rebel Rose — and then brushed on some Bobbi Brown Blush in Pale Pink.

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While highlighting the inner corner of the eye has long been a beloved technique among makeup artists, Kylie Jenner put a 2019 spin on it by smudging hot pink eyeshadow into her inner corners instead.

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Who says you can't mix two red carpet beauty trends into one? For this cat-eye look on Cardi B, makeup artist Erika La' Pearl used Cardi's new lilac rainbow hair as inspiration, choosing a vibrant neon pink shade of shadow that matched her highlights exactly.

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Rihanna, as per usual, was way ahead of this makeup trend. Last year, the singer posted a picture of herself wearing the peachy Saffron shade from Fenty Beauty's Moroccan Spice Palette all across her lids. Worn with a glossy pink lip, she proved how low-key and cool pink eyeshadow can look.

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But never forget: Pink can easily be super high-impact, as Lucy Hale showed us last year when she rocked intense, glittery fuchsia eyeshadow for an event celebrating her cover of Haute Living. Just like Shahidi, the color was enhanced by the rest of Hale's makeup, with makeup artist Kelsey Deenihan swiping on some pink lip gloss and bright pink blush.

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6 At-Home Facial Massagers Experts Actually Recommend

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Jade rolling. Skin gyms. Face yoga. No matter what you call it (or which form of it you practice), facial massage ranks up there with glass skin, pink eye makeup, and crystal-infused products as one of the biggest breakout trends of the past few years. It's not that the practice is new, exactly — in fact, it's one of the oldest beauty treatments in the book. Facial massage has long spanned generations and cultures, with techniques stemming from France, Japan, China, India, and beyond.

For American audiences, however, facial massage has historically been reserved for pricey spa treatments, not something you can do for yourself every day. But thanks to a more recent proliferation of Instagram-friendly jade rollers and microcurrent devices, and a stable of other innovative gizmos for home use, that's all changed. Now, it's not a matter of if we should incorporate 30 seconds or more of face massage into our routine, but how.

Ahead, five renowned skin pros share their favorite facial-massage tools and how to use them.

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We've experienced the instant lift that microcurrent devices like this one can give jawlines, cheekbones, and browbones, and we're not the only ones who love the massager's tightening effects. "This is by far my favorite at-home skin tool, which is inspired by professional electric muscle stimulation machines that have been used on the face and body by pros for decades," says celebrity aesthetician Renée Rouleau. The only catch? Regular usage is key. "It’s like doing sit-ups for the face, but if you stop using it, the muscles will return to their original state."



NuFACE Mini Facial Toning Device, $199, available at Sephora

"Many will claim that facial rolling helps with lymphatic drainage to reduce puffiness, but true lymphatic drainage requires a specific technique that will 'drain' your face, and the average facial roller isn’t really going to know how to do that," says Rouleau. "A stone using the gua sha technique can be more effective for doing this."

Ann Marie Cilmi, VP of Education and Innovation at Face Haus, agrees: Adding a few passes with the stone can also relax tension in the face. Her favorite way to incorporate the stone? Put the gua sha tool on ice for a few minutes (this will prime it to constrict the blood vessels to better tone the skin), then use it to do a 30-second massage after applying serum. "This is especially beneficial around the delicate eye area and a total savior after a night out," she says.



Odacité Crystal Contour Gua Sha Blue Sodalite Beauty Tool, $45, available at The Detox Market

"Facial tools like this one can help de-stress, de-puff, and decompress before bedtime," says Savor Beauty founder Angela Kim. Apply a few drops of your favorite serum or facial oil (like the brand's Raspberry Seed Serum) and use light pressure to glide the rose quartz nubs across your face in outward strokes to trigger lymphatic drainage. "Be careful not to drag or tug the skin," she says — the tension can break capillaries, damage collagen, and cause fine lines and wrinkles.



Mazz Hanna Beauty Rose Quartz Face Massagers, $65, available at Mazz Hanna

Makeup artist Jillian Dempsey used a version of this Japanese-designed vibrating tool for years before convincing the manufacturer to build one for her namesake line. "For me, it's as essential as an eyelash curler," she says of the tool she uses on celebs like Emilia Clarke and Julia Roberts. "As I prep a client's skin when I do events, I use it to sculpt the cheekbones and under the jawline. It relaxes tension in the face and pushes circulation in the skin."

After adding a drop or two of moisturizer to the skin, the makeup artist starts at the lower corners of the mouth, then pushes the tool toward the ears, moving up the cheeks for three or four minutes before moving to the other side of the face. "It feels so relaxing," she says. "It's like getting a mini massage."



Jillian Dempsey Gold Sculpting Bar, $195, available at Jillian Dempsey

Facial rollers feel especially indulgent when taken right from the freezer, which is why the brand suggest storing yours in the ice box. (That said, we found the stone roller stays refreshingly cold to the touch even at room temperature.) But it doesn't just feel good: As Rouleau points out, "Facial massage will increase circulation to help bring fresh blood and new nutrients to the skin cells. I’m a big believer in boosting blood flow to the face, especially as you get older." Though there are certainly cheaper rollers out there, we like this one for its sturdy construction.



Cosmedix Rose Quartz Crystal Facial Roller, $35, available at Cosmedix

Dry brushing for the body has been around for years. Now, this affordable new tool brings its benefits to the face without the scratchy abrasion. According to celebrity facialist and Tweezerman brand partner Angela Caglia, who makes rose quartz facial-massage tools of her own, dry brushing the face is a great alternative for those with sensitive skin and rosacea. "Sometimes a roller can be too cold, especially if you keep it in the fridge. This is gentle enough to move all the lymph drainage without the cold sensation," she says. "Use this on a clean, dry face with the same movements as you would with a roller. The dry-brush experience uses a bit more pressure than a roller and is more invigorating for blood flow."



Tweezerman Dry Brush, $14, available at Tweezerman

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Considering Tape-In Extensions? Read This First

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Extensions are complex. First of all, there are hundreds of hair types to choose from depending on the look you're going for — long, short, curly, and every color you can imagine. And if you thought picking out the right extensions was hard enough, the methods used to install them are equally unique.

You have a few options: The sew-in method, which actually sews wefts of hair to your natural hair; clip-ins that are fastened with barrette-like attachments; micro links, which are individual extensions that are applied strand-by-strand with bead-like rings; and then there are tape-in extensions.

Some women are asking for tape-ins over all other methods, because they're lightweight and blend seamlessly on wavy and straight hair. But don't be fooled — the process isn't as simple as sticking on a piece of tape. Ahead, find out everything you need to know before you book an appointment for tape-in extensions.

How are tape-in extensions applied?

"Tape-in extensions are super thin and look extremely natural," says celebrity stylist Takisha Sturdivant-Drew. "The wefts come with double-sided tape along the base. You peel off a clear sheet from the weft and apply it to the hair."

According to stylist and salon owner Nunzio Saviano, the extensions are applied in a sandwich-like pattern, with the natural hair in between two pre-taped wefts. The entire process takes about an hour. "Once they are in, you shouldn't feel them," Nunzio says. "You usually don't need too many for length and volume." In order for your tape-in extensions to have body and movement, your stylist can apply shorter wefts throughout the hair.

Can you shampoo your hair with tape-in extensions?

Once your hair is installed, maintenance is fairly easy, Nunzio says. "You can shampoo, condition, and style your hair as usual," he says. "But avoid using products with alcohol, because it can break down the glue, and the weft can fall out."

Chris Appleton, global artistic director of Glam Seamless, suggests investing in a soft-bristle brush to avoid tugging on your extensions. "I also highly recommend sleeping on a silk pillowcase at night," he says. "If you are swimming, playing sports, or working out — always keep your hair in a braid to minimize knotting."

Can curly hair types get tape-in extensions?

"I wouldn't recommend this for textured hair," Sturvidant-Drew says. "You don't want to risk getting your curls stuck to the glue. Also, tape-in extensions just generally blend better with fine, straight, or wavy hair." If you want to add length and volume to your curly hair, she prefers the sew-in and clip-in methods.

What is the right way to remove tape-in extensions?

After your initial installation, prepare to fit touch-ups into your schedule every 8-10 weeks. But this is also where things get tricky, Sturdivant-Drew says. "The hair can start to loosen up, and improper removal can result in hair loss." Yes — you read that right. "I've seen people get bald patches from tape-in extensions because the adhesive is so powerful." Although the weft is supposed to be placed close to the scalp, you always run the risk of getting your hair stuck to the glue, so Sturdivant-Drew recommends going to a professional for application and removal.

Sturdivant-Drew says that using a slippery oil is a great way to ensure a seamless removal without ripping your hair out. "Whatever you do — do not peel or tug them out," she warns. You can also purchase a bond-removing solution  to loosen up the weft from your scalp. However, bond removal liquids can be extremely flammable, so be extra careful. "You should see an experienced stylist to remove these extensions," she says. "This isn't one to DIY." In other words — tape at your own risk.

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This $3 Viral Amazon Accessory Is Crashing Our Instagram Feeds

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For those of us who shop professionally, Amazon is a source of delight and discovery, offering up problem-solving products we never knew existed and surprisingly fashion-forward wardrobe staples. Ever since the e-tailer produced a puffer coat that took the internet (by way of the Upper East Side) by storm last year, we’ve been hot on the trail of the site’s next big hit. And, by golly, we've found it with the Amazon pearl barrette.

We’ve been noticing the inexpensive but eye-catching item popping up more and more on our Instagram feeds: a clip-style barrette made oversized by a pavé of glossy pearls, often accompanied by a hidden tag identifying Amazon's Fashion IG handle — a frugal humble brag that we're not mad at. Available in a set of three on Amazon for a mere $2.65, the barrettes are a perfect nod to spring’s undeniably-everywhere hair-accessories trend. But it was the sight of our very own Associate Social Media Editor Hannah Bullion wearing the cute hair clip last week that sealed its fate in our books as an official accessory of relevance.

It turns out Hannah was an early adopter of the trend, having spotted the barrettes in a 2018 post-holiday ’gram from Holly Titheridge. “I had been seeing the pearl barrettes all over Instagram and couldn’t figure out where to find them (quickly) and affordably. Turns out, they were just a quick click away.”

To salute this solid cheap find, we’re sharing the best of the barrettes from a handful of women that have discovered its subtle magic. From using them to accentuate braids or a simple lob to more heavy-duty messy-bun anchoring, the style mavens in our feed are putting these viral clips to good use. And, in case you’ve already plunked down the $2.65 on the original set, we’ve included a few extra shopping options, so that you can mix-and-match your pearl barrettes just like the pros.

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Associate Social Media Editor Hannah Bullion was quick to nab a set of these pearly beauties, and is already on the lookout for another style. “I definitely will be purchasing different barrettes this spring — I’ve had my eyes on this one!”

Tennessee-based attorney Elizabeth Greene paired the barrettes with a messy bun in mid-January.

Brooklyn-based influencer Makeda mixes her barrettes with a gingham jacket and fresh flowers — a symphony of spring trends.

Dawn Tan puts hers on artful display.

Fashionable mom Ana shows us that the barrettes can be a kid-friendly accessory.

These luminous hair accessories can’t hide in the shadows, despite this effort from Sarah Najafi.

OK, so not the pearl barrette but a worthy mention since we're talking about pearl hair accessories from Amazon — Chriselle Lim tops off a prim Chanel ensemble with a crown of tiny pearls she attributed to Amazon in her Stories. Get the look for a mere $7 here.

The OG barrette set comes with an edgy square option, along with two curved styles boasting differently-sized beads.



Hithop Artificial Pearl Barrettes, $2.65, available at Amazon

Snag these oversized Pixie Market clips before they head to the waitlist again.



Pixie Market Double Pearl Barrettes, $16, available at Pixie Market

Go sculptural with an elevated, pearl-accented set from Urban Outfitters.



8 Other Reasons 8 Other Reasons Lucy Pearl Hair Pin Set, $38, available at Urban Outfitters

A sweet, flowery option from Farrow.



Farrow Lucie Pearl Barrette, $32, available at Need Supply

Egads! Hop on the spelling trend with these pearl-studded hometown statement clips.



blackcurrantpop Pearly Slogan Clips, $21.94, available at Etsy

Bring pearl accents to a topknot with these Ulta bun twists.



Kitsch Pearl Bun Twists, $8, available at Ulta Beauty

Do you love the shape of the Amazon set, but want something edgier than pearls? BaubleBar’s got you covered with this rhinestone-embedded pair.



BaubleBar Nicole Hair Clip Set, $38, available at BaubleBar

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Lori Loughlin & Felicity Huffman Might Go To Jail, But That Doesn't Mean Their Careers Are Over

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Lori Loughlin and Felicity Huffman have gone AWOL. The two actresses at the center of the college admissions scandal have posted their bail ($1 million and $250,000, respectively) after being charged with conspiracy to commit mail fraud and honest services fraud. Loughlin has also been removed from her current projects on Netflix and Hallmark. The final nail in the coffin? Social media. Both women have now scrubbed their respective Instagram and Twitter accounts, and Huffman has also taken down her parenting website, What the Flicka?.

This is clearly a strategic move. Now that the initial dust has settled after The Hollywood Reporter first broke that the women were two of 50 people indicted in the college bribery scandal known as Operation Varsity Blues last week, Loughlin and Huffman have to figure out what's next. Or rather, their teams do.

For two actresses, this is a PR nightmare. One prominent publicist responded Refinery29's request for interview by saying, "Thank goodness, I’m not involved in the college admissions scandal."

You can say that again, because the consequences the women are facing go well beyond the indictment and potential jail time. A source told Deadline that Loughlin's role on Netflix's Fuller House is "toast, it’s over." Over on the Hallmark channel, the actress will no longer appear in the TV series When Calls The Heart and movie series Garage Sale Mystery.

As for Huffman — once an Oscar nominee for her role in Transamerica — her three upcoming projects ( Otherhood, When They See Us, Tammy's Always Dying) are all in post-production (Netflix did not immediately respond to request for comment about Loughlin's role in the Central Park Five series), but it's hard to imagine opportunities will be abundant following her alleged involvement in the scam.

Do I think this will destroy them? I absolutely don’t. This will go away. This is no R. Kelly. This isn’t a career killer.

However, things may not be as dire as they seem.

"Felicity and Lori, their brands will be hurt. Do I think this will destroy them? I absolutely don’t," Ronn Torossian, PR CEO and crisis manager told Refinery29. "This will go away. This is no R. Kelly. This isn’t a career killer."

Torossian thinks people will empathize with the motive behind the mothers' alleged actions, and that, with time, they'll return to steady work. A legal expert told Forbes that as long as they continue to cooperate with authorities and show contrition, the women will likely be fined and possibly given probation.

However, Loughlin and Huffman aren't the only ones who are facing repercussions. Huffman's husband, William H. Macy, was not named in the indictment, but his voice appears in the transcripts of the recorded phone calls. Shameless, on which Macy plays lead Frank Gallagher, just wrapped up its ninth season, and Showtime declined to comment on whether Macy would be welcomed back for season 10.

Loughlin's husband Mossimo Giannulli, a Target fashion designer, was named, and he is similarly being lambasted online. Avid followers of the scam started digging up old information, including the fact that this isn't the first college scam Giannulli has been a part of.

“He, like, built his whole entire brand, and he wasn’t actually, like — I don't know if I'm supposed to say this — ever enrolled in college," Loughlin and Giannulli's daughter Olivia Jade said on The Zach Sang Show earlier this month. "But he, like, faked his way through it, and then he started his whole business with tuition money that his parents thought was going to college. That’s, like, such a different time. I don’t know if I was supposed to say that, but it’s okay."

Page Six also reported that Giannulli was overheard voicing his support for Trump at a party which, while not necessarily connected to his alleged involvement in Operation Varsity Blues, lead to even more negative coverage from certain outlets. It's presumably all this negative noise that lead to the total shutdown of Loughlin and Huffman's social media, and it's what Torossian told Refinery29 made the most sense for both parties.

“There’s a time for noise, and there’s a time to be quiet," he said.

However, this silence limits the possibility of the two parents giving an easily accessible statement. So far, they've not spoken publicly on the allegations, which leaves them in this limbo.

"I think they need to communicate clearly if they’re guilty and say sorry across all platforms," Torossian advised. "No comment won’t suffice."

There's only one person whose career is sure to get better after the scandal — Loughlin and Giannulli's youngest daughter Olivia Jade. Although the 19-year-old will no longer be attending USC and has lost some of her sponsorship deals, her popularity has only grown. Before the scandal, her YouTube channel was gaining just a few hundred subscribers a day. Now, according to Social Blade, she's gaining thousands of subscribers daily, and has seen a 20,000 total increase since the news broke.

Maybe everyone involved should just pivot to being an influencer. A joint YouTube apology video would definitely break the internet. And Loughlin and Huffman could play themselves in the inevitable movie, bringing the saga full circle.

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14 Spring Cleaning Dos & Don'ts — According To Experts

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Our apartments are shining and spotless, all of our belongings are systematically color-coded, and not an inch of precious space is overcrowded or wasted...In our dreams. In reality, most of us weren't born home organization superstars; our apartments actually look more like a Miss Havisham wedding chamber nightmare than the above fantasy. But since the ice has melted and buds are beginning to bloom, we can't hide underneath layers of dust any longer — it's time to do the damn spring cleaning thing.

Since attempting to tackle this formidable task is overwhelming, to say the least, we decided to humbly consult experts for help. Clea Shearer and Joanna Teplin of the trendy, Nashville-based home organization service and blog, The Home Edit, blessed us with their best advice on what to do (and what to avoid) when freshening up our spaces, post winter hibernation. Start small with a drawer and other miscellaneous spaces, go big and tackle your pantry, or tackle one project at a time until your surroundings are at the peak of organization. No, matter where you begin, we've paired their tips with the shoppable product solutions that will take you 14 steps closer to your spotless (and color-coordinated) dream space.

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Miscellaneous Spaces

TIP 1
Don't: Feel like you need to tackle an entire room to feel accomplished.
Do: Start with a small project, like that junk drawer you’ve been avoiding or your beauty product stash. The faster you see your progress, and how life-changing it is, the more motivated you’ll be to tackle the next project on your list.

TIP 2
Don't: Leave dust and dirt behind in an empty space.
Do: Take the chance to wipe down all cabinets and drawers before placing items back in their designated home. It feels good to start fresh!

TIP 3
Don't: Skip the edit process.
Do: Remove EVERYTHING from the space (it should be completely empty when you’re done, no exceptions!) and lay the items in front of you, grouped into categories. By doing this, it makes it visually easier to decide what to keep, toss, or repurpose, especially if you have any duplicates. Once you’re done editing, you can decide what items will have a designated “home” together. If you skip these steps, it’s easier to revert back to cluttered habits.



Puracy Organic Home Care Set (5-Pack), $39.99, available at Amazon

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MadeSmart Medium Stacking Vanity Bin White, $29.97, available at The Container Store

STORi Clear Plastic Drawer Organizers (6-Piece Set), $14.99, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

Linens & Laundry

TIP 1
Don't: Clutter up your laundry cabinets with various types of bulky detergents and supplies.
Do: Purchase glass canisters that can fit the liquids, pods, or dryer sheets in bulk, so you aren’t having to run to the store to buy them as often. Plus, it doubles as a unique decor accent when stored on a countertop.

TIP 2
Don't: Stack items like towels, t-shirts, and linens.
Do: Maximize space by rolling them neatly. If you don’t have access to shelving, these items can be rolled and stacked in a bin or basket.

TIP 3
Don't: Concentrate JUST on the aesthetic.
Do: Create a space where function and form are equals. Think about it: You can buy all the brightly color-coded containers in the world, but if items are shoved haphazardly inside, it’s not helping anyone. Plus, by creating a beautiful AND well-maintained system, you’ll be motivated to keep it that way.



Wayfair Woven Hyacinth Storage Basket Set, $22.99, available at Wayfair

Cost Plus World Market Small Glass Canister (Set of 2), $9.98, available at Cost Plus World Market

Highland Dunes Woven 3 Piece Fabric Basket Set, $28.99, available at Wayfair

STORi Premium Plastic Apothecary Jars (Set of 3), $26.99, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

The Closet

TIP 1
Don't: Use mismatched or old hangers in your closet.
Do: Purchase sets of space-saving slimline or huggable hangers. It’s the easiest way to transform your closet! You won’t have to worry about your clothing slipping onto the floor, plus the space will instantly look more refined and polished.

TIP 2
Don't: Take up valuable space with clothing you aren’t wearing at the moment.
Do: Create seasonal bins for summer and winter. Place one on a high shelf, and one within reach, and rotate them as the weather changes.



Utopia Home Premium Non Slip Velvet Hangers (50-Pack), $23.99, available at Amazon

Dilwe Stackable Plastic Storage Boxes (5-Pack), $22.98, available at Walmart

Closet Complete 3-Piece Completely Clear Storage Set, Rose Gold, $29.99, available at Houzz

Koobay Rose-Gold Wire Top Hangers (30), $64.98, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

The Pantry

TIP 1
Don't: Walk blindly into the store when shopping for organization supplies.
Do: Measure the cabinets and shelving you are planning to use, and decide what items (baskets, dividers, jars, turntables) will help you maximize the space you have to create a system that works for you. When in doubt, we suggest buying extra items that you can return at a later date. You never want to be in the “ugh, I just needed two more!” situation.

TIP 2
Don't: Keep your pantry items hidden.
Do: Use labeled clear jars, canisters, and divided turntables in your pantry for visible and easy access. For other bulk packaged items, embrace open bins that are easy to manage with general categories like: Breakfast, Dinner, Snacks, Sweet Snacks, Baking, and Cooking. Both will help you see what needs to be restocked so you won’t have to run back to the store when you forget the sugar, etc.



mDesign Lazy Susan Spinning Food Storage, $22.99, available at Amazon

Made By Design Plastic Food Storage Container Collection (Set of 5), $36, available at Target

mDesign Stackable Plastic Storage Bins (4-Pack), $34.99, available at Amazon

Mint Pantry Trillium 3 Piece Storage Jar Set, $46.99, available at WayfairPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

The Kitchen

TIP 1
Don't: Store loose fridge items without a container.
Do: Designate categorized zones with labeled bins. For items like condiments, utilize a divided turntable for easy-to-spot access. Also, don’t forget to leave a space for leftovers!

TIP 2
Don't: Ignore the “hidden” storage areas, like under your sink.
Do: Create a functional space by adding divided turntables to store your cleaning supplies or other items you use often, but don’t want shown. It makes it easier to find what you need, rather than having to dig through a dark abyss. Stackable open bins are another helpful option.



mDesign Lazy Susan Turntable With 5 Sections, $17.98, available at Amazon

Sorbus Fridge Bins and Freezer Organizer, $30.99, available at Amazon

The Container Store Under The Sink Starter Kit, $44.64, available at The Container Store

Urban Outfitters Glass Storage Bowl (Set Of 3), $40, available at Urban OutfittersPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

Storage Spaces

TIP 1
Don't: Keep items hidden in closed containers.
D0: Utilize storage such as clear bins, open baskets, and divided turntables to provide easy access to items that you need within your immediate reach. Also, we believe in the power of labeling, which keeps your categories visible, and doubles as a guilt mechanism when you are about to shove an item where it doesn't belong.

TIP 2
Don't: Declutter your space ONCE and then leave it.
Do: Make it a priority to carve out 5-10 minutes weekly to maintain your newly organized space. It becomes a huge time and money saver! When you can find where everything is, you won’t need to waste time searching for a certain item or waste money buying double. It all comes down to putting things away where you found them — simple enough.



Magicfly Cloth Storage Bins with Label Holders (6-Pack), $23.99, available at Amazon

Urban Outfitters Looker Storage Box, $14, available at Urban Outfitters

Mainstays Clear Storage Boxes, 7 Gallon (4-Pack), $28.43, available at Walmart

Kitchen Supreme Chalkboard Labels & Erasable Chalk Marker (73-Pack), $13.97, available at AmazonPhoto: Courtesy of The Home Edit.

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Why Spring Is The Perfect Time To Get An Under-Boob Tattoo

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Despite the tattoo mania that ensued last summer, the hottest season is the least ideal time to get a tattoo. You may want to show off your new thigh or ankle ink the second you get a beach day, but factors like excessive sun exposure, chlorine, and sweaty friction can negatively affect how your new tattoo turns out. For that reason — and really that reason only — we're thankful it's still winter (okay, almost spring).

Without a damp bathing suit or pool in sight, we can officially declare it peak tattoo season. And the perfect place for your next ink: underneath your boobs. More cutely referred to as the under -boob, the spot underneath the bottom curve of your breast has recently hit the tattoo zeitgeist. Similar to its sisters (sternum and side-boob tattoos) the under-boob area is sensitive, intimate, and — unless you choose otherwise — easily hidden by clothing.

Despite the fact that the placement is more painful than others (most likely due to the close proximity to the rib cage), it's a spot that doesn't discriminate. New York-based tattoo artist Mira Miriah (a.k.a. @girlknewyork) tells us that your breast size shouldn't affect whether or not you can get a tattoo underneath your boob. Whether your boobs are small, round, and perky or hang low with a bit more weight, this is universally-flattering real estate.

The most important thing to know about these tattoos is that the after-care is more personalized, depending on your breast shape and size. "If someone with larger breasts gets [an under-boob tattoo], they can use Tegaderm during the healing process," explains Mariah, referring to the transparent film dressing some pros prefer for protecting fresh tattoo ink. This will decidedly solve the problem of boob sweat or friction from skin and clothing. And as far as bras go, Mariah confirms it's all relative: "If a bra is going to rub against the tattoo, skip it." Bottom line: Chat with your artist about your concerns before you take the plunge on the tattoo because no matter what, you'll have to find a design and after-care routine that makes sense for you.

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It's a sad day for Harry Potter fans everywhere because Ariana Grande officially covered evolved her tattoo dedicated to the children's book series. Although most people think the tattoo was a tribute to her ex-fiancé Pete Davidson (he does have the same word inked on his back), it's also Professor Severus Snape's most famous line in the final book and movie, "Always." But just like Snape's love, this tattoo couldn't last forever since now the word is slightly hidden by a massive leaf extending from the middle of Grande's sternum to her ribcage.

Since there is a large amount of surface area you could easily consider the under-boob area, the size of the actual design can vary. This cluster of flowers by Mariah is perfect inspiration for the kind of ink that peeks out underneath your favorite crop top.

When choosing your ink make sure you do your research on the artist. While some artists specialize in teeny-tiny script, others — like Mariah — more often go for larger pieces with tons of realistic detail.

If you have a strong pain tolerance, consider requesting a sternum tattoo that curves underneath both boobs. Bonus: Ink like this can be shown off with a strategic V-neck.

Or request a custom design that wraps under the entirety of the breast.

If you've got a full collection of black ink already, this might finally be the time to consider color. Tattoo artist Knarly Gav recently created this rainbow bouquet of flowers for a client.

If bold, primary colors aren't your thing, you can always get inspiration from the watercolor designs by tattoo artist Jess Chen.

Although the stick-and-poke method might add an extra level of discomfort to a tattoo near the ribs, the unique detail is totally worth it. Case in point: Tattoo artist Rosa Bluestone Perr 's delicate snake.

Perr frequently leaves her signature on clients' tattoos with poked halos circling the top of the design. This dainty fish was no exception.

This is the tattoo that will get you one step closer to being Rihanna.

Because, yes, she has one, too. (It's a reimagined version of the Egyptian goddess Isis.)

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7 Highlighter Sticks To Try If You Love Glossier's Haloscope

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When Glossier first launched in 2014, no one really cared about minimalism — at least, millennials weren't talking about it yet. Then, the straight-to-consumer beauty brand began to redefine what it meant to want a less-is-more look. And while Glossier fans love the all-purpose balm and tinted brow gel, it was the sweat-in-a-stick highlighter, Haloscope, that secured the first cult-like following for the brand.

What about this highlighter stick is so special? What does it do that the hundreds upon thousands of others on the market simply don't? If you've ever run a mile on a slightly humid day in New York City and reveled in the glossy and sticky glow that covered your face once you slowed to a stop, then you'd know: Haloscope creates a similar radiant sheen without the risk of shin splints. It's downright dewy without beaming off of your cheekbone like other artificial shimmer products. It's, well, kind of perfect in that regard.

As with many things, Glossier started a trend. Now there are plenty of great highlighters out there that mimic the natural shine of Glossier Haloscope. Just in case OG is sold out the next time you need a lit-from-within glow, here are seven of your next-best options.

Haloscope, by and large, is one of the best highlighters out right now. When it launched in 2016, it was a game-changer. Instead of an ultralight beam of sparkle, Haloscope offers a moonlit, your-skin-but-better glow that's so convincing you'll even think you got eight hours of sleep and didn't hit snooze five times this morning.



Glossier Haloscope, $22, available at Glossier

Fortunately, that opalescent, barely-there glow isn't just available at Glossier these days. Now, you can find it in Gucci Westman's pearl-white highlighter. It's like the fancier, mess-free alternative to smoothing a dollop of Vaseline all over your cheekbones.



Westman Atelier Lit Up Highlight Stick, $48, available at Violet Grey

Similar to Glossier, Flesh's icy highlighter is formulated with conditioning oils that are meant to soften the skin as you apply it, so it looks like you actually put your skin first.



Flesh Beauty Touch Flesh Highlighting Balm, $12, available at Ulta Beauty

We love NudeStix's multipurpose tinted balm, because unlike other more pigmented highlighting sticks out there, this one doesn't feather when you sweep it directly onto the skin.



NudeStix Nudies All Over Face Color Bronze + Glow, $32, available at Sephora

If you've ever spritzed your face with a hydrating face mist at some point during the day, then you know what it's like to wish that instant, albeit temporary, shine would last longer than a few minutes. This super-sheer, highlighting balm from Chanel does exactly that.



Chanel Baume Essentiel, $45, available at Chanel

This creamy highlighter from Marc Jacobs melts into your skin for a lived-in radiance that can only otherwise be achieved by a 60-minute SoulCycle class — and, well, sweeping this one-step highlighter onto your cheekbone is way easier.



Marc Jacobs Beauty Glow Stick Glistening Illuminator, $42, available at Sephora

Looking for a more precise strobe? This soft-focus formula is small enough to get you glowing in the hard-to-cover places, like the inner corners of your eyes or over your brow bone.



Wander Beauty Catch the Light Highlighter, $25, available at Sephora

Makeup that doubles as skin care is the quickest way to achieve a flawless, I-drank-a gallon-of-water-today glow without actually having to drink a gallon of water (although the benefits of chugging H2O are worth it). This naked glaze uses vitamin C, cold-pressed avocado oil, and murumuru butter to give you that luminous shine.



Becca Skin Love Glow Glaze Stick, $28, available at Sephora

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Jewelry Worth Diving Under The Sea(shell) For

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We could all use a little memento of the beach in our daily lives, if only to center us when the urban walls start closing in. And if a stringed necklace made up of shells is the way to do it, well, we're here for it. Puka shells are climbing their way back, so maybe it's time we give seashell jewelry a little reconsideration. But stash your repressed memories of Surfer Steve and his necklace back where they came from. Think of the resurgence as puka 2.0, featuring cowrie shells in their full form.

Since last summer, we've seen an uptick in brands managing to create line-ups of seashell- embellished and seashell-inspired pieces that merge seaside with cityscape, and the trickle down effect into jewelry is capturing our hearts. A mental getaway while we're grinding away until summer comes calling for us again is right up our alley, because we'll take short bursts of being transported to sipping on Mai Tais in a cabana over the reality of our work desks any day.

From pendant necklaces to tassel earrings, designers are finding creative and quirky ways to incorporate the tiny seaside souvenirs into their pieces. For those ready to delve into the nouveau puka shell necklace, click ahead.

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4 Instagram-Approved Looks To Help You Master Neon This Spring

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When it comes to controversial trends, neon 's at the top of the list. But despite its infamous past, we've recently been seeing the reflective color scheme in a new, gentler light. Among other kitschy trends, from beaded bags to cowrie shell jewelry, neon has found a way to shed its tacky history and take on a more sophisticated approach (thanks for the kick in the butt, Kim). And since we now have the (slime) green light to tackle our spring wardrobes, we're keen to get this reinvented color-way off our warm-weather inspo boards and into our closets.

But one question still remains: how on earth do you style it? Sure, Instagram makes it look so easy, but when it comes to doing it IRL, mastering neon is hardly 1 + 2 = 3. So to help you tackle what's shaping up to be spring's biggest color trend, we went straight to the source: Instagram. Ahead, check out our favorite brighter-than-bright looks (and some shoppable options to match) that'll make figuring out just how to wear neon this spring and summer easier than ever before.

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Suit Up
Fact: we're suckers for a two-piece set — especially if it comes in neon. Pair one with a white t-shirt for a laid-back look, or divide yours up by donning the pants and top separately.

Not-Your-Average Neon Bikini
The beach is an easy locale to take risks. Skip your black bikini or white one-piece and opt instead for a neon suit paired with natural accessories. It'll ease you into neon dressing and look really great with a tan.

Go Big Or Go Home
Sometimes when it comes to trying new trends, you've got to just go for it. Try a brightly-colored jumpsuit or a throw-on-and-go maxi dress in a reflective shade. In a neon-fueled fashion world, sometimes it's best to give it all you've got.

A Stomp Of Color
Neon dressing doesn't always need to be tricky. By throwing on a pair of brightly-colored sandals, you can take your favorite spring basics to electric new levels.

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Starbucks Just Changed Its Rewards Program To Be More Like Sephora's

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Starbucks is overhauling its rewards program so that customers will start earning rewards faster. Quicker access to freebies means the coffee chain is also essentially eliminating its Gold Level status by default.

Previously, you had to reach Gold Level — 300 stars — to be able to redeem a free drink or food item for an additional 125 stars. Starting April 16, customers can cash in their Starbucks stars as soon as they get them. Like before, 2 stars will be earned for every dollar spent.

Starbucks' updated star system will more closely resemble other loyalty programs, like Sephora's Beauty Insider, where customers accumulate points to redeem a range of different perks to be chosen at their discretion.

For 25 stars you can ask for an extra shot of espresso, pump of flavor, or opt for any dairy substitute at no extra cost; 50 stars lets you walk out of your local Sbux with a brewed hot coffee, tea, or baked good, on the house; 150 means a free handcrafted drink, hot breakfast, or yogurt parfait; 200 stars, and lunch is on Starbucks. And if you ever make it to 400 stars without cashing in first, there's an option for "select merchandise" or packaged coffee. If you’re a Chase credit or debit card holder, expiration dates are hereby cancelled and you can hoard your stars without ever worrying about them disappearing.

It's worth noting that while the tiers make it easier to get a reward, like a regular coffee or flavor pump, it will take more points to redeem an espresso beverage or lunch item than the previous 125 points — but only if you had already hit that Gold Level.

What hasn't changed: You can still count on your complimentary birthday treat and the opportunity to earn Bonus Stars on monthly Double Stars days.

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The Real Story Behind Queer Eye's Emotional Smile Makeover

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Queer Eye has captured our hearts with its touching makeovers that transform lives, spark important social commentary, and always make us ask, Who is chopping onions in here?! And the newest season, which premiered over the weekend, might be its most powerful yet — all thanks to the ladies of Jones Bar-B-Q.

The episode highlights Mary and Deborah Jones, a dynamic sister duo that run a bustling barbecue spot in Kansas City. The stories of the two women, who have dedicated their lives to their family, will have your eyes welling up within minutes. And if there's one scene that's really setting off the waterworks, it's Mary's smile makeover.

After Tan France and Jonathan Van Ness notice that Mary is self conscious about her smile, they take her to a local dentist for a consultation. Mary reveals that she damaged her front teeth in a bicycle accident when she was a child, and she now covers her mouth whenever she talks. France and Van Ness hold her hand as Missouri-based cosmetic dentist Holli Careswell, D.D.S, completes the procedure — and seeing Mary's reaction afterward is one of the most moving moments of the series.

We caught up with Dr. Careswell, who tells us that there was even more to that day than what you see on TV. "Mary never spent a lot of time at the dentist as a child, so she didn't know what to expect," says Dr. Careswell, who sat down with Mary before cameras were rolling to make sure she was comfortable. "The original injury, when she lost her front tooth and broke the tooth beside it, was really traumatic for her. For her, to think about dental work was just overwhelming. These fears were holding her back from pursuing the dentistry that she needed for many years."

With the help of France and Van Ness who accompanied her, Mary was able to face her fears with confidence. Along with holding her hand — which you can see in the episode — Van Ness had some other off-camera tricks that made all the difference. "Jonathan did some breathing techniques with her to help her to relax a little bit," said Dr. Careswell, who added that the laughing gas didn't hurt either.

For the actual procedure, Dr. Careswell inserted a 3-unit dental bridge, which can be used when there are empty spaces between the teeth like Mary had. It typically costs around $3600-4500, but the price varies depending on the case and how many teeth are being replaced. The pain-free process, which cements the crowns to the adjacent teeth, usually takes about an hour and a half from start to finish.

Although Mary was thrilled with her transformation, there's still more work to be done and she is now a regular patient at Dr. Careswell's office. "She told me she'd like to go ahead and work on the left side, fixing some other spaces that she has in her mouth," Dr. Careswell says. But the most important change has already been made. "She's so much more outgoing and just projects herself with the light she always had inside of her," Dr. Careswell says.

After season three aired, Dr. Careswell has received tons of messages from people wanting to learn more about the procedure. "It has been surprising and amazing to see the outpouring [of love] and all the nice messages from fans," she says. "I'm so thrilled to be able to show the impact that cosmetic dentistry can have on a person's self confidence once they feel that they can smile again. Dental work doesn't have to be scary. It can be life-changing."

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How To Fit Giving Into Your Budget — No Matter How Much Money You Make

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We all have a lot of competing financial responsibilities. Sometimes, it can feel like too many.

Feeling like a financially-responsible adult — one who has their debt handled, who knows how to responsibly wield a credit card, and who saves money (and leverages interest) every month — sometimes sounds more like fiction than an attainable reality. This is especially true for those living in an expensive city and struggling to find their professional footing. And, amid all of these opposing financial forces, it’s no surprise that charitable giving easily falls between the cracks.

Giving and participating in philanthropy is often regarded as an activity reserved for the wealthy. “This is a conventional narrative, but it’s not the whole story,” says Andrea Pactor, interim director at the Women’s Philanthropy Institute. “The reality is that people donate their time, talent, treasure, and testimony in many ways, every day, in all communities across income, race, gender, sexual preference,” Pactor says. “And sometimes people don’t recognize that what they’re doing really is what we call voluntary action for the public good.”

Millennials face a myriad of economic challenges and as a result they don't give all that much money to charity, but at the same time they are transforming the way society understands philanthropy. By and large, millennials prefer to donate clothes, food, goods, and their time instead of cash. When they do donate funds, phenomena like online giving — made easy through platforms like Facebook’s charitable giving tool or Amazon Smile — have played a huge role. Today, millennials account for 33% of donors on crowdfunding sites like GoFundMe or YouCaring.

According to Emily Green, a financial advisor at Ellevest, when it comes to giving, millennials are more concerned with making an impact than with the number of zeroes in a donation. “They not only think of it as charitable giving but have really been the driving force of spending with mission-driven companies,” Green says. “More than any other generation, they want to understand the impact every dollar has, whether it is philanthropy, spending, or investing.” So, how can we begin to rethink our relationships to philanthropy and build giving into our spending habits?

More than any other generation, millennials want to understand the impact every dollar has, whether it is philanthropy, spending, or investing.

One of Pactor’s chief priorities at the Women’s Philanthropy Institute is to raise awareness that society depends on civic engagement and philanthropy that engages and helps others. This, Pactor says, begins with identifying a cause or issue that you feel passionately about and can commit to supporting for the long haul. “It doesn’t matter whether it's health care or education, or care for animals — it’s about being passionate is the first place. Then you have to turn that passion into action.”

Pactor notes that, often, philanthropy begins modestly, with activities such as volunteering. According to the Institute’s research, volunteering regularly leads to giving on a regular basis. And, while giving regularly may sound like it could put more strain on your bank account, Pactor says this doesn’t have to be the case. Her solution? A giving plan.

She suggests beginning by writing down your values and the issues you care about, as well as what you’re already giving — whether it’s a Facebook fundraiser for a friend’s birthday or a box of Girl Scouts cookies. From there, you may need to identify some additional organizations or initiatives that align with what you care about.

Identify a cause or issue that you feel passionately about and can commit to supporting for the long haul

Next, it’s time to figure out how you’d like to give, whether of your time, talents, or money, and how much you can afford. In order to stay within your giving budget, Pactor recommends adhering to the 80-20 rule: “80% of your giving should go to the things you’re personally passionate about." and "the other 20% can be allocated to all those requests from friends to support their causes,” Pactor explains. “Once that's spent you can more easily say: I value what you’re doing but I have a giving plan and you got to me too late in the year — but I’d like to consider that for next year.”

A giving plan also affords us permission to say no — which, for women especially, can sometimes be a challenge. With a clearly organized structure, we are given permission to turn some things down without feeling bad about it.

Green also believes that developing a financial plan with a portion dedicated to charitable giving is important. Many of Green’s clients have had concerns about how giving can work within a budget, to which Green says: "Plan, plan, plan." According to her, this could mean setting an amount for yourself to give within a timeframe.

Pactor believes that women are better able to understand how we can leverage our money putting us in a better position to step into our role as philanthropists. “We’re good at talking about the pair of shoes or a sweater we bought on sale, we’re less good at talking about how much we give,” she says, though she adds that there is no such thing as a “right” way to give.

The most important piece, she reiterates, is making sure that you give to a cause that you care deeply about, and to give an amount that fits within your financial plan. “The answer isn’t give until it hurts, it’s about making a gift meaningful for you,” Pactor says. Today, giving what we can to help others is not only a nice thing to do, it’s necessary. But this does not mean we have to over-extend ourselves; the balance lies in finding ways to create the most impact with what we have, which is also dictated by how we spend and consume in our daily lives.

The answer isn’t give until it hurts, it’s about making a gift meaningful for you.

“If you are giving to an organization that supports clean energy, you don't want to be spending or investing your money in a way that is supporting the exact opposite,” Green notes. Ultimately, whether we are donating, spending, or investing, we all have the power to make an impact by identifying and supporting causes that are making the world better — and committing to give what we can on a regular basis. After all, we must remember, Green says, that “at any wealth level, we can all make a difference through giving.”

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Giving Circles Are Helping Young Women Make 'Change, Not Charity' In Their Communities

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“Your donation, however small, matters!” You've probably heard something like that from political fundraisers, sad animal commercials, friends on Facebook. So you click on those "Donate $5" buttons, submit your credit card to GoFundMe campaigns, then just sit back, hoping others are doing the same. But there are some people — even young non billionaires — who are getting the satisfaction of seeing their money make a real difference in their communities and in the world through another model of philanthropy: a giving circle.

Giving circles are groups of people who pledge to give a set annual donation, often around $1,000, and then work together to choose the recipients of their pooled money. Grants of, say, $10,000 can do a lot for a small nonprofit's budget. It's a very old-fashioned concept based on the way smaller communities used to help each other, but it's gaining ground now, as more people seek ways to connect to each other and make changes in the face of overwhelming odds.

"Some people, when they hear the word 'philanthropists,' they think 'rich, white old man,' " Masha Chernyak, vice president of programs and policy at the Latino Community Foundation, tells Refinery29. "That's not the case. It's not just the Zuckerbergs."

Who Is Giving?

"I grew up watching my immigrant parents donate their time and their money to support our church, our community, and other family members who were having difficult times," says Janeth Medina, a DACA recipient who now works in banking and is a member of the San Francisco Latina Giving Circle. "I once supported a friend who was struggling to make her monthly installment for school. It was instilled in me to always help others."

This kind of informal giving has often been overlooked when academics and nonprofit professionals study charitable giving. In its latest Women Give report, the Women's Philanthropy Institute found that in the U.S., 34% of African American and 33% of Latino households give to charities, compared to 59% of Asian American and 58% of white households. But when income and wealth are taken into account, those differences all but disappear.

Giving circles (of which 70% of members are women, often in women-only groups) harness that generous instinct of people who may not have realized that they can afford to donate and have an impact.

"There is this sort of interest and sense of urgency that people have about making their communities and neighborhoods better, but they just don't know what do," says Nicole Robinson, a chair of the Queen Makers, a giving circle on the South Side of Chicago that's part of the Chicago Foundation for Women (CFW). Though Robinson's day job is in the nonprofit sector, she and the other founders of the group recruited lawyers, artists, teachers, and women from other walks of life who live in the South Side and want to invest in smaller organizations that will help women and girls in the neighborhood. They raised $33,000 last year and expect to reach over $50,000 next year.

To make sure they involve the next generation, the Queen Makers allow younger members to donate only $500 and commit to raising the remaining $500. The giving circles that form the Latino Community Foundation in California require $1,000 donations, but Chernyak says that some members raise that money over time from friends on Facebook, through garage sales, or other means.

Medina doesn't think her friends in their twenties should balk at the amount, even with other bills to pay. "I break it down for them: $1,000 a year is $83 a month, or less than $3 a day," she tells Refinery29. "I mention how sometimes we spend more than that on happy hour each month and ask them to think about putting their money where their heart is."

Getting Their Money's Worth

Millennials do love giving away their money. A study found that they give at a rate of 84% (as opposed to just 59% of Gen Xers and 72% of Baby Boomers). But the momentary zing of self-satisfaction you receive from donating online to a huge relief fund is nothing compared to how the women in giving circles describe their experiences.

"We poured wine, we brought food, we created a space where it was almost like a healing circle — women were laughing, sharing," Chernyak says of the first circle she helped organize for LCF in 2012. "We got down to business at the end of the meeting, but the majority of the night was spent getting to know each other and rooting ourselves in love and culture, in what we've all wanted and how that united all of us. What happened very quickly was women went home and said, 'Oh my god, that was such a powerful experience.' "

The kind of networking that takes place at circle meetings is also pretty powerful.

"I met some of my dearest friends, mentors, and sponsors through this giving circle network," Medina says. "Since I joined, I have been empowered to join three nonprofit boards and made two lateral moves within my current employer. This all happens through the power of connection, love, and guidance."

Robinson has witnessed people meeting for the first time in her circle, even though they live just a couple of blocks away from each other.

"A sense of community is being created that is sometimes difficult to make when we're in our routines of commuting to work and following our same paths every day," she says.

How the Recipients Benefit

If you look at it on paper, a nonprofit should get just as much out of 500 individual donations of $50 as it would from a grant of $25,000 from one giving circle, but this is not just about the money. Giving circles are usually organized around specific missions, and so their members are particularly passionate about where their money goes.

Typically, organizations send in proposals to the grant circles, and then a select few will be asked to pitch their proposals in-person during meetings. Chernyak says this can be a moving experience, as the applicants speak to a group of supportive Latinas.

"It feels like a group of tias (aunts), like a group of comadres, a group of my mothers and my grandmothers saying, 'I believe in you, and we have your back,' " she explains.

After hearing pitches, circle members then discuss amongst themselves who will receive their money for the year, and how much will go to each grantee. That money sometimes comes with bonuses in the form of extra help from members of the circle. Sometimes the donors get so involved, they go on to become board members of the organizations, as Medina has done.

Both the Latino Community Foundation and Chicago Foundation for Women are larger organizations that provide an infrastructure for many giving circles. There are 20 groups in LCF's Giving Circle Network, and three in CFW's (in addition to three giving councils). There are larger organizations, like the National Giving Circle Network, Amplifier (for Jewish groups), and Catalist (for women's groups). Sometimes the foundations help find appropriate nonprofits to suggest for their circles' grantees. Other times, small nonprofits get the advantage of exposure to other circles in the network, as well as other resources they can use to grow.

Even though the circle members love to be involved, Chernyak emphasizes that the donors don’t dictate how grant recipients should do their work. Rather, they award their grants to people who are already leaders in their community, and the money is meant to support their efforts as the nonprofits see fit.

In Chicago, Robinson explains a similar philosophy that prompted her circle to call themselves the Queen Makers.

"We talked about investing in Black women leaders who are leading these programs that specifically target Black women and girls," she explains of their first meeting. "But we're also supporting 'queens' in business because the circle has been operating for the past year and a half, and we gathered in spaces that were owned by Black women, or use the services of a business that was owned by a Black woman that lives on the South Side."

Beyond the Circle

Philadelphia's Spruce Foundation began in 2007 as giving circle of 14 friends who wanted to invest in youth-focused nonprofits in their community. Today, it's evolved into a different model of grassroots philanthropy for young people.

"That initial group of members really felt called to having a larger impact, and that came with figuring out a way in which the organization could attract people who were not part of their friend group to join, to donate time, service, funds, or to help generate funding," Spruce Foundation president Jeannette Bruno tells Refinery29. Now, it's a fully formed 501c3 organization, but it maintains its commitment to youth and to fostering philanthropy in the next generation.

Bruno's introduction to Spruce was a happy hour she attended when she was new in town and looking to meet people and connect to the community, which is a common theme with members.

"I think the social aspect can be a driver, particularly when you think about a city like Philly, where there are a lot of people who are from here and also a lot of people who come here for school or for a job," she says, but adds that they're also looking for something deeper than that. "It's this idea that we're all stewards of the community that we belong to. People want to come together around that."

Instead of restricting membership to those who can give $1,000, Spruce raises funds in other ways. But it encourages people to join committees and its 26-member board to volunteer their time and decide on grantees collectively. People can serve on the board for only four years before they have to rotate out, meaning there are fresh perspectives and new people learning the ropes of running a foundation all the time.

"We're challenging the idea of traditional philanthropy, so we have messaging that there's no giving requirement," she says. "We just try to be cognizant of where people are in their lives, what their capacities are, and recognize that not everyone's at the table because they're a big moneymaker. People are at the table because they're an innovative thinker, because they have a diversity of perspective, or because they come from a sector that's growing in our city, and we want their thoughts and their opinions."

How Can You Get Involved?

If you live near one of the circles we've mentioned, you can reach out to them on their websites. You can also look at the larger foundation networks to find circles in your area. Then again, you might want to start your own.

Robinson suggests doing this with the help of a network or a community foundation that uses donor-advised funds. An organization like that can help with administrative details — particularly the financial ones — and it will have staff members with expertise in the nonprofit sector.

That said, there are ways to do this without official help. Several websites outline the steps you'll need to take, from deciding your mission and level of commitment required to determining how to manage your money and distribute it.

Rather than getting bogged down in the process, Chernyak wants potential donors to remember why giving like this is important.

"This is about change, not charity," she says. "Charity is about handouts, and change is really about respect for our community and ourselves. It's about love. You can't lead the people forward if you don't."

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Millennials are more often associated with the penny-pinching $1 Venmo charge than with charitable giving. But in many of the Money Diaries we publish, right under Utilities and Spotify on the OP's list of monthly expenses is a line for donations. From Planned Parenthood to Patreon to ASPCA, millennial women are giving — regardless of how much money they make — to the causes and charities they care about.

Philanthropy isn't a word reserved just for multimillionaires. Whether you factor in donations as an automated line item in your budget or give on a one-off basis in response to whatever incendiary thing the president tweeted that morning, you're a philanthropist. And talking about philanthropy — and how to adjust your spending to make room for it — can empower more people to do it, too.

Ahead, we polled the Money Diaries community on what causes and charities they care about, why they donate to them, and how much they give every year.

Name: Jamie
Age: 38
Location: Ontario, Canada
Salary: $91,703

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $60/month

Where do you give? Why?

I give to Snowsuit Fund, Alzheimer's Society, and Rainbow Railroad. Snowsuit Fund because they provide warm outdoor clothing for kids in need, and all children need to be warm and dry. (Ottawa regularly sees -40 degrees during our winters.) Alzheimer's because it's a debilitating and lingering disease that I've watched multiple family members suffer from. Rainbow Railroad to help LGBTQ2+ people escape from countries that torture and persecute people for their sexual and gender identities, and to cover the costs of getting them to a safe country. I'm ashamed that I only discovered this charity after one of my kids came out, but I have contributed since.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

I have the amount removed from my paycheck, so I've learned to budget the remainder accordingly.

Name: Lindsey
Age: 23
Location: Washington, D.C.
Salary: $45,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? The goal is to give 10% of my income (which is $4,500) to charitable causes every year. (I was raised Christian and still am, so I've grown up with the concept of tithing in my life and try to stick to it as much as I can.) This year, I am on track to give closer to $3,100. I'm also evaluating whether 10% is the percentage of my income I want to stick with in the coming months/years.

Where do you give? Why?

I have a list of social justice–oriented nonprofits and organizations, because I support the work they're doing and believe in their mission. I've given to the Equal Justice Initiative, Girls Inc. (where I've also volunteered a few times), The Bail Project, SMYAL, The Sentencing Project, Sylvia Rivera Law Project, Planned Parenthood, and others. I try to mix it up. I've also recently thought about just setting up a monthly donation to a favorite charity instead of donating smaller amounts to a bunch of organizations, in order to increase the impact that my donations have.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

Yep. It's definitely a trade-off and always an interesting choice, because most mainstream financial advice doesn't take donations into consideration. (For example, in the 50/30/20 split, where do donations fall?) I do my best to pull from the money I would normally spend on discretionary activities (eating out, going to events and concerts, travel, etc.), rather than reducing the amount I put toward short-term savings, student loans, and my emergency fund. Sometimes I get frustrated thinking about what my savings account would look like if I put the money I donated into my savings instead, but it's also awesome to support the causes I care about (and I recognize I am privileged to be able to do this).

Name: Kathryn
Age: 26
Location: Washington, D.C.
Salary: $65,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $1,400

Where do you give? Why?

The majority of my charitable giving goes to the women's college I attended for undergrad. In short, it's because they do great work, and I don't think I'd be where I am today without that experience. I believe in the college's mission, and as a former scholarship recipient, I want to pay it forward for future students (even as I work on paying down my own student loans). I also give to both my local NPR station and the NPR station in my hometown, because accurate news coverage is SO important. Growing up listening to NPR (and fund drives), I have to say I was SO excited when I got my first job and could finally afford to contribute. I also give a tiny regular contribution to a funky lit mag called The Bitter Southerner, because I like their focus on sharing stories from the new South. I also make occasional contributions to Planned Parenthood, the ACLU, Southern Poverty Law Center, and my local church when I go home to visit my parents.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

Automate! Automate! Automate! I worked at an environmental charity in college, and it really drove home to me how much more impactful regular monthly giving is compared to one-off contributions. This is both in terms of the cumulative amount contributed, and from a planning perspective for the charity. The things I really believe in I give to monthly, and it's a regular expense that I budget for, just like internet or Spotify. I've recently hit the point in my career where I've become a bit more comfortable financially, and so I'm trying to be mindful of the fact that I'm lucky enough to have enough. I have increased my giving to my alma mater, and I'm considering whether I should be giving more (answer: yes, probably), and to what groups.

Name: Geneva
Age: 23
Location: Northern Virginia
Salary: $61,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $800

Where do you give? Why?

WAMU (local NPR station), County Animal Shelter, my university and my high school on a monthly basis ($50/month), and random other one-off charitable contributions throughout the year that total about $200.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

I'm working my way out of debt right now — credit cards, student loans, and a car loan. I'm also trying to save and invest as aggressively as I can, but all of these organizations are important to me. I honestly feel really stingy with the amount that I give, and I'm looking to double my monthly contributions once I'm done with the credit card debt.

Name: Catalina
Age: 25
Location: Portland, OR
Salary: $48,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $300, and volunteering hours whenever I can

Where do you give? Why?

Basic Rights Oregon to protect our LGBTQIA2S+ community members, Oregon Public Broadcasting to help keep our public broadcasting station alive, and Transitions Projects to help provide homeless people with vital services.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

Due to my current income and debts, I've found other ways to volunteer and give what I can to important organizations. I make small monthly donations (literally between $1-$10 a month) to organizations I care about (it may be negligible, but it's what I can do). I also volunteer time whenever I can, whether that's phone banking, canvassing, or helping out at events. Lastly, when I'm spending money on "extras" (like getting dinner with a friend or seeing a movie in theaters), I'll pick independent, locally run businesses to give my money to. (Thankfully, despite all of the gentrification, Portland is still home to so many small family-run businesses.)

Name: Maggie
Age: 25
Location: Phoenix, AZ
Salary: $48,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $2,000

Where do you give? Why?

I work for a nonprofit, so I give to my employer every month. I also donate monthly to Heifer International. As a child, we would do "Pennies from Heaven" for Heifer, and I've been a big fan since then. When I made enough money to prioritize charitable giving, it was at the top of my list, and I especially appreciate how the organization has expanded. They don't just give people cows anymore — one of my favorite programs is their women's empowerment initiative. On top of my monthly giving (which is automatic and factored into my budget), I also like to support my friends and family who participate in fundraising for walks, races, etc. I try to spread out that giving throughout the year, so it's higher in some months and lower in others, depending on what's happening. Finally, my mom became a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) last year, and I made a couple donations in her honor to the CASA programs in her county and mine to show her how much I look up to her and appreciate the amazing work she's doing.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

It's always been important to me to give back, so as soon as I made enough money to need a budget, charity became a line item. I honestly don't think of it as "giving something else up," because I get so much back by giving to people and causes I believe in! Yeah, if I didn't give to charity, my walls might not be so bare, my dog might have more toys, and I might get more pedicures (than the ~one/year I currently get), but my soul would be heavier, I'm sure.

Name: Grace
Age: 22
Location: Chicago, IL
Salary: $68,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $3,000

Where do you give? Why?

I have a sponsor child through World Vision. My parents had different sponsor children throughout my life, and I saw the impact the monthly donation had on those kids. For example, I remember one child we sponsored from Thailand who was able to get funding to go to college and eventually secure a job in aviation. I also give to a local food bank in Chicago and volunteer there as well. I see food insecurity throughout this city and feel that no one should have to worry about where their next meal comes from.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

I'm in a financial position where I'm able to give a decent amount of my paycheck, and I would eventually like to give more. This past holiday season, I decided that whatever I spent on Christmas gifts I would match in charitable donations.

Name: Sarah
Age: 31
Location: Providence, RI
Salary: $47,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? Around $700 — I have $50 of repeat donations each month and then occasionally make one-off donations of $20-$50.

Where do you give? Why?

I make repeating monthly donations to a food bank, a local immigrant-rights organization, and an online forum I frequent. My one-off donations can be in response to something in the news (i.e., donating to the ACLU after Trump's election), or sometimes they're donations to individuals in my community who have experienced a tragedy (like a house fire or the death of a family member).

I feel fortunate to be where I am in my life and for the opportunities that I've had. I don't think they're opportunities that are extended to everyone. Right now I'm the most financially stable I've ever been, and I'm really grateful for that — my salary isn't a huge amount of money, but it's enough! I support the food bank and legal-rights orgs as a way of extending a little of that stability to others in my community who are struggling the most. I see the donations I'm able to make as small steps toward creating a world that lines up with my priorities.

I've always worked at nonprofits, so I'm fairly confident in my ability to assess organizations and to understand how my donation might be used. For example, with my $25 donation, I know the food bank is able to provide more food than I could get if I donated groceries directly to them, and I know that they are in the position to make the best decisions about what to buy.

I'd like to also start donating to somewhere that is advocacy-focused. Direct service is great, but it can also be a Band-Aid on issues that could be solved with policy.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

I think there's always a tradeoff. I'm a pretty frugal person naturally. (I have an old car, I love thrift shops, and I brown-bag my lunch.) I'm also a huge geek, and I use You Need a Budget to track my spending pretty closely. If I were to stop giving to charity, I would probably just end up spending more on clothes or restaurants — those are the areas where I have to constantly rein myself in. I think in ten years I'll be happy that I put my money toward these causes instead of three more nights of takeout each month!

I also try to make my giving proportional to the amount of wiggle room I have in my budget. I just hit my goal for a fully funded emergency fund (six months of expenses) and also got a 20% raise at work. Between those two things, I plan to bump up my giving as soon as the raise kicks in.

Name: Meli
Age: 27
Location: Portland, OR
Salary: $53,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? $200

Where do you give? Why?

My dad passed away from cancer in May, and I decided for his birthday each year, since I'm not able to give him a birthday gift anymore, I will donate to both his cancer center and the hospice house he spent the last few days of his life at. It's my little way of celebrating his birthday.

Name: Zeidee
Age: 28
Location: Work in NYC, live in NJ
Salary: $150,000

How much do you give to charity/causes you care about every year? For the past two years, I’ve donated about $11,000 a year, but this year I’ve challenged myself to donate half my salary, which will be about $54,000 after taxes. It’s still only March, so I'm hesitant to really talk about this goal of mine because I could still fail miserably, but I might as well, and maybe it will make me even more accountable for completing the challenge.

Where do you give? Why?

My church: My faith is very important to me, and my church has provided for me in so many ways that I support them out of love and gratitude, not guilt or obligation.

Food for the Hungry: I was at a Johnnyswim concert, and they were promoting this organization and the work that it does. I was intrigued and ended up “adopting” a kiddo in Peru. We get to be pen pals, and I cherish the letters and drawings I receive.

Equal Justice Initiative: Bryan Stevenson is an incredible human being. I saw him speak a while back and was moved by his story and fight to repair our broken justice system.

Mentee’s Investment Account: I started mentoring in the Bronx two years ago and was matched with a high school student who continues to amaze me every day with her resilience, grit, and enjoyment of life despite everything life has thrown at her. She’s graduating this year in June and got accepted to her top-choice college! She’s a rock star, so she is getting scholarships and other financial aid, but I wanted to also send her off with something more, since I do have some means. I created a Vanguard account and have been investing in index funds that I will transfer to her name and present to her for her graduation with a mini investment lesson.

GiveWell: When I made my decision to donate half my salary, I got analysis paralysis big time because I wanted to make sure the money I was donating was going to be used effectively and for worthy causes. Luckily, I stumbled upon GiveWell, a nonprofit dedicated to finding thoroughly vetted and evidence-backed charities. I give to them through Betterment (basically gifting them stocks) because of extra tax benefits as well!

Natural Resources Defense Council: Our planet needs our help! I wanted to give specifically to an organization trying to solve Earth’s most pressing issues, and this one came highly recommended.

How do you factor charity into your budget? Do you have to give something else up to be able to give?

It’s evolved over the years, but I’m very lucky that I have a high salary, have built up retirement and savings accounts, and know my necessary living expenses can be kept low (hello, Jersey living). With those in place, I allocate to donating/giving first in my budget and then fit everything else around it, including still contributing to retirement and non-necessary expenses. I purposely set my giving goal to be high so that I can feel it and have to give things up.

Before, when I was giving $11,000, I honestly didn't feel a change in my spending or saving, which I recognize is a very privileged thing to say. Now, I have to trim a little bit of all my unnecessary spending to make my budget work: vacations, eating out, clothing, entertainment — pretty much every category has to be dialed back, compared to how I used to spend. It’s meant to be a tough challenge, and I’m monitoring how it’s changing me, my relationship with money, and even my relationship with family and friends.

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Philanthropist is such a stuffy word. It calls to mind rich, old white men who have massive public buildings named after them — Rockefeller or Carnegie. Or maybe you think of one of the tech billionaires who have set aside some of their fortunes for good — Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg. Either way, it's not an accessible concept, especially for millennial women who face not only a rocky economy and student loan debt, but also a pervasive wage gap. Yet, when I edit Money Diaries, I regularly see women including charitable giving among their monthly expenses. Sure, they might be paying off hundreds of dollars in student loan debt each month, but they're also giving $50 to Planned Parenthood. It might not be enough to get their name on the wing of a hospital, but it's something.

That's one of the many reasons I was drawn to the new campaign I Am A Philanthropist from the Women's Philanthropy Institute in partnership with the YWCA and Facebook. I love that it gives credit to women who are donating both their time and money to causes they are passionate about. We might not have millions to give, but dollar for dollar, hour for hour, we are making an impact.

Today, March 19, 2019, we're excited to celebrated the official launch of the I Am A Philanthropist campaign with a series of stories on Refinery29. Our hope with this series is that we will inspire even more women to create giving plans, join giving circles, and acknowledge how their peers are really making a change.

The Women's Philanthropy Institute releases its Women Give report each year with the hope that it will encourage nonprofit organizations to reach out to broader audiences, as well as help potential donors realize they don't need to be rich to make an impact. This year's study found no discernible difference in the giving patterns of different ethnic groups. Single women give slightly more than single men, and couples give more than single women — but that's not surprising when you consider they likely have more disposable income.

The video that accompanies the campaign features 9 women who are redefining philanthropy, giving of their time and resources, both through traditional and non-tradtional methods. These women have organized giving circles, serve on nonprofit boards, and use their own experiences and skills to help teach others in their communities.

They are philanthropists — and there's not a old white man in sight. And you're a philanthropist, too — share your own story today (or any day!) using the hashtag #IAmAPhilanthropist.

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Exclusive: Bernie Sanders Campaign Announces 10 New Women Hires

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The Bernie Sanders 2020 presidential campaign has announced 15 new hires in key positions, 10 of whom are women. This comes on the heels of the campaign hiring four key Iowa staffers and three 2016 veterans in New Hampshire last week.

The campaign says that now, every single one of its teams — management, political, policy, organizing, communications, advance, digital, and fundraising — has women, and predominantly women of color, in leadership positions. Overall, the national leadership team is around 70% women.

The women coming on board include: René Spellman, deputy campaign manager, a Bernie 2016 alumna who has worked in the Obama White House; Analilia Mejia, political director, a union organizer who was honored by President Obama as a "Champion of Change"; Sarah Badawi, deputy political director, previously the legislative affairs director for the Progressive Change Campaign Committee; Claire Sandberg, national organizing director, a Bernie 2016 alumna and previously the deputy campaign manager for Abdul El-Sayed's gubernatorial run in Michigan; Dr. Heather Gautney, deputy director of policy, formerly a senior policy advisor on the U.S. Senate Budget Committee and a researcher for Bernie 2016; Arianna Jones, communications director, a Bernie 2016 alumna with experience leading media strategy for progressive clients; Sarah Ford, deputy communications director, a Bernie 2016 alumna who served as the communications director for Cynthia Nixon's 2018 gubernatorial campaign in New York; Briahna Joy Gray, national press secretary, a former attorney and senior politics editor at The Intercept; Georgia Parke, senior social media strategist, who worked in Sen. Sanders' Senate office since 2016; and Robin Curran, digital fundraising director, formerly the email director at the Democratic National Committee.

Other hires include campaign manager Faiz Shakir, chief of staff Ari Rabin-Havt, policy director Josh Orton, senior communications advisor and speech writer David Sirota, and senior advisor Tim Tagaris.

Staff applauded the campaign's efforts to diversify its lineup compared to 2016.

"I think it's important to ensure that a campaign is reflective of the individuals they're trying to reach, and a campaign is better served when it has a more representative staff," political director Analilia Mejia told Refinery29. "As a grassroots organizer, when I've worked in diverse teams it just creates more dynamic and positive outcomes."

"It's this idea that you can't have a campaign about Democratic socialism, about supporting marginalized people and dismantling the patriarchy, without having people who've experienced this our whole lives," added René Spellman, the deputy campaign manager. "He's hiring these people who have created policies and practices not just by reading textbooks, but because of the life they've lived. It's not lip service, it's lived experience."

Claire Sandberg, the national organizing director, said that most of the volunteers in the 2016 campaign, which she also worked on, were women. "Personnel is policy, so having a diverse leadership team and having women in leadership was important for Bernie to do," she said. "We have all learned a lot of lessons across the board in virtually every area of the campaign; there are many areas in which we want to do things better this time."

Last week, the campaign announced that it would be the first major presidential party campaign in history to unionize its workers. "The measures of success for campaigns are going to have to go beyond money raised, offices opened, and current standing in polls," said Arianna Jones, the campaign's communications director. "It's about how campaigns are making meaningful commitments and investments in the core principles of inclusion and equity. We learned a lot in 2016, and what we're seeing in the lineup and leadership is a reflection of our campaign goals. This campaign needs to be a reflection of the people that are supporting it."

The campaign will visit California for the first time this week, holding rallies in San Diego and San Francisco, following stops in Iowa, New Hampshire, South Carolina, and Nevada.

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