What you’re about to read is a carefully curated list of films that celebrate the more humorous parts of the female experience — for smart women who appreciate watching it in said way. If your favorite part of perusing Seventeen was always reading the Traumaraumas out loud with your friends, we feel you. This list is 100% your jam. Also, who among us hasn't flown too close to the sun by testing the absorbency limits of a tampon? It's all part of the learning curve, friends.
These movies celebrate all the joy, pain, and douleur exquise of the female experience in a way that’ll make you laugh, cry, and craugh (a new world we’re coining for laughing while crying). Because that’s what’s involved in being a woman sometimes: finding humor in even the most difficult of situations.
Some of the films are pure silliness. Others are extremely dark and subversive. This is the essential comedy canon, though, to make you silently sing, “I Enjoy Being a Girl” — and know that you're never alone on this, your female mortal coil.
P.S. In some cases, we’ve suggested an additional film with which to pair a given movie. Because, much like pretzels and frosting, some things just go better together, you know?
Bringing Up Baby (1938)
Starring: Katharine Hepburn, Cary Grant
A delightful screwball comedy about a tame leopard named Baby who’s mistaken for a dangerous circus leopard; a paleontologist (Grant) who’s mistaken for a zoologist and therefore asked for help bringing up Baby; and a woman named Susan (Hepburn) who’s at the center of all the cases of mistaken identity.
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The Women (1939)
Starring: Norma Shearer, Joan Crawford, Rosalind Russell
You won’t see a single male in this film following the interconnected lives of various Manhattan women. Not a one!
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The Philadelphia Story (1940)
Starring: Cary Grant, Katharine Hepburn, James Stewart
A divorced socialite (Hepburn) is set to remarry, but her ex-husband (Grant) and a tabloid reporter (Stewart) show up to throw a wrench in her plans.
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Roman Holiday (1953)
Starring: Audrey Hepburn, Gregory Peck
A sheltered European princess (Hepburn) wanders off in Rome and is discovered by an American reporter (Peck). She decides it’s time to live a little. He decides it’s time to make some money. Falling in love ensues, obviously.
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Some Like It Hot (1959)
Starring: Marilyn Monroe, Tony Curtis, Jack Lemmon
Two jazz musicians (Curtis and Lemmon) on the run from the mob in Chicago disguise themselves as women and join an all-female band en route to Miami. They both fall for the band’s singer/ukulele player (Monroe), but their entanglement with the Mafia isn’t over yet.
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Annie Hall (1977)
Starring: Diane Keaton, Woody Allen
Neurotic comedian Alvy Singer (Allen) falls in love with cool, menswear-sporting icon Annie Hall (Keaton). When their relationship unravels, Alvy desperately tries to figure out what went wrong.
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Private Benjamin (1980)
Starring: Goldie Hawn, Eileen Brennan, Armand Assante
Judy Benjamin is a spoiled, sheltered 28-year-old who’s never experienced any hardship until her new husband (Albert Brooks) dies during sex on their wedding night. An Army recruitment officer (Harry Dean Stanton) convinces Judy that the military can provide the kind of sheltered family experience she’s used to. Obviously, Private Benjamin is in for a very rude awakening.
Pair Private Benjamin with the charming Troop Beverly Hills, in which an equally spoiled and sheltered woman (Shelley Long) decides to lead a troop of Wilderness Girls in Beverly Hills.
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Tootsie (1982)
Starring: Dustin Hoffman, Jessica Lange
An actor (Hoffman) can’t get hired because he has a reputation for being difficult, so he pretends to be a woman. His female alter ego soon becomes a soap opera star.
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The Princess Bride (1987)
Starring: Robin Wright, Cary Elwes, Mandy Patinkin
When the evil King Humperdinck (Chris Sarandon) decides to marry Buttercup (Wright), the love of Westley’s (Elwes) life, Westley sets off on a quest to get her back.
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Moonstruck (1987)
Starring: Cher, Nicolas Cage
A widow (Cher) accepts a marriage proposal from her boyfriend (Danny Aiello), only to wind up falling for his younger brother (Cage).
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Working Girl (1988)
Starring: Melanie Griffith, Harrison Ford, Sigourney Weaver
An extremely driven woman (Griffith) from Staten Island discovers that her boss (Weaver) is taking credit for her big idea, and she sets out to fix the situation. If you’re looking for another “ladies sticking it to the man and overcoming institutionalized sexism in the workplace” comedy (starring Dolly Parton!), cue up 9 to 5.
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Watch 9 to 5: Amazon, iTunes, Google Play, Netflix
Heathers (1988)
Starring: Winona Ryder, Christian Slater
Veronica Sawyer (Ryder) hates the Heathers — the vicious, bitchy girls she pretends are her friends, who all happen to be named Heather. When sexy loner J.D. (Slater) moves into town, he goads Veronica into acting on her fantasies of murdering the popular people at their school together.
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Sister Act (1992)
Starring: Whoopi Goldberg, Maggie Smith, Kathy Najimy
A Vegas lounge singer (Goldberg) hides out from the mob in a convent after she walks in on her gangster boyfriend (Harvey Keitel) having someone executed, and he orders a hit on her as well.
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Welcome to the Dollhouse (1995)
Starring: Heather Matarazzo, Daria Kalinina
Middle schooler Dawn Weiner struggles with bullies, her parents’ lack of interest in her (and over interest in her siblings), and the other joys of adolescence.
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Clueless (1995)
Starring: Alicia Silverstone, Paul Rudd, Stacey Dash
Impossibly stylish Beverly Hills high schooler Cher Horowitz (Silverstone) lovingly meddles in her friends’ and teachers’ lives.
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Walking and Talking (1996)
Starring: Catherine Keener, Anne Heche
Two women who have been friends since childhood reach a crossroads in their lives when one of them (Heche) gets engaged, while the other (Keener) is still struggling to find her identity independently of the men she dates.
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The First Wives Club (1996)
Starring: Bette Midler, Goldie Hawn, Diane Keaton
Three divorced women (Midler, Hawn, and Keaton) decide to get revenge on their ex-husbands, who all left them for younger women.
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Romy & Michele’s High School Reunion (1997)
Starring: Lisa Kudrow, Mira Sorvino
Two best friends (Kudrow and Sorvino) haven’t quite accomplished what they hoped since finishing high school, but when their 10-year reunion rolls around, they decide to concoct an elaborate fantasy life for themselves to impress their classmates.
Watch it: iTunes, Google Play
Drop Dead Gorgeous (1999)
Starring: Denise Richards, Kirsten Dunst, Ellen Barkin
A dark satire about the horrors of teen beauty pageants.
Watch it: Google Play
Election (1999)
Starring: Reese Witherspoon, Matthew Broderick
An even darker black comedy about a high school election that ruins a man's life thanks to one type-A student.
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Legally Blonde (2001)
Starring: Reese Witherspoon, Luke Wilson, Jennifer Coolidge
Further proof that you should never judge a book by its Valley Girl-esque cover. She might just turn up at Harvard Law one day.
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Ghost World (2001)
Starring: Thora Birch, Scarlett Johansson
High school seniors and best friends Enid (Birch) and Rebecca (Johansson) have no life plans beyond graduation besides getting an apartment together. They decide to meddle in a lonely man’s (Steve Buscemi) life, which results in a complete falling out between the two friends.
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Bend It Like Beckham (2002)
Starring: Parminder Nagra, Keira Knightley, Jonathan Rhys Meyers
Jess (Nagra) dreams of playing soccer, but her traditional Indian parents want her to follow a more practical path.
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Mean Girls (2004)
Starring: Lindsay Lohan, Rachel McAdams
An uncomfortably spot-on portrayal of the complex and cruel mind games high school girls play with one another to remain at the top of the metaphorical food chain.
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Saved! (2004)
Starring: Jena Malone, Macaulay Culkin, Mandy Moore
Students at a Christian school struggle with their commitment to their faith and each other.
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Juno (2007)
Starring: Ellen Page, Jennifer Garner, Michael Cera
After a high school student (Page) gets pregnant, she decides to give the baby up for adoption and searches for the right parents in the local Pennysaver.
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Bridesmaids (2011)
Starring: Kristen Wiig, Maya Rudolph, Rose Byrne
Annie (Wiig) wants to make her best friend Lillian’s (Rudolph) wedding the best day ever, but it’s kind of hard to be a stellar maid of honor when Annie’s own life is in a bit of a shambles. Enter Helen (Byrne), Lillian’s new BFF from the country club set she’s about to join. Helen is one of those women who’s so perfect, you actually wonder if she ever takes a shit.
For a darker take on the whole wedding industrial complex, pair a viewing of Bridesmaids with Leslye Headland’s Bachelorette (2012).
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Moonrise Kingdom (2012)
Starring: Kara Hayward, Jared Gilman
Two madly in love 12-year-olds (Hayward and Gilman) flee their respective homes and run away together, throwing the people they left behind into a state of chaos. Pair this with any other Wes Anderson creation, really, but you’ll probably identify with Margot Tenenbaum (Gwyneth Paltrow) in The Royal Tenenbaums the most.
Watch Moonrise Kingdom: Amazon, iTunes, Google Play, Netflix
Watch The Royal Tenenbaums: Amazon, iTunes, Google Play
Pitch Perfect (2012)
Starring: Anna Kendrick, Skylar Astin, Rebel Wilson
It’s a cutthroat world out there on the college a cappella scene, and Beca (Kendrick) wants no part of it/hasn't even heard of it when she arrives at Barden University. Well cue up the “Since U Been Gone” audition montage, because someone’s about to get pitch-slapped.
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Spy (2015)
Starring: Melissa McCarthy, Rose Byrne, Jason Statham
The CIA’s best field agent (McCarthy) is actually someone they’ve stupidly confined to a desk job for years in this hilarious sendup of every spy movie ever.
Watch it: Amazon, iTunes, Google Play
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